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What girls really want in a boyfriend


What girls really want most

There’s plenty of bad advice out there for you to buy into if you do an internet search on what girls really want in a boyfriend. Everything from the “each woman is different” garbage to the “girls want a man with these 20 traits” crap.

In reality, the true answer is quite simple.

Let’s look a some facts:

Girls don’t want a boyfriend with money because they love money. They simply understand that with more money they can buy stuff, go places and do things to make their lives more FUN.

Girls don’t desire famous men because they want the high social status. They can see that having high status will grant them access to exclusive things that are even more FUN.

Girls are not attracted to men in power because they want to be powerful. They just know that with power they’ll pretty much be able to have as much FUN as they want to without limits.

Notice the trend here?

At the end of the day, all that most girls really want more than anything else is to have fun.

Do they desire a man who is confident? Yup.

Do they want a guy who is attractive? Sure.

Do they need a man to keep them safe? Yes.

Those are all great qualities to have and if I felt like it I could keep listing off a hundred more, but this article isn’t about all of the various traits that women look for in a boyfriend.

This is about the undeniable #1 core thing that drives almost all of their other desires.

They just want to have a life filled with fun.

Yup, what girls really want in a boyfriend or a husband truly is that simple.

This is particularly true when it comes to beautiful girls who don’t need to worry about limitations or insecurities getting in the way of their pursuit of happiness.

They quite simply don’t have that many things holding them back from trying to make sure that their lives are like one big vacation.

Really, can you blame them?

I’m not just talking about party girls; even highly motivated, career oriented women want to let their hair down at the end of the day.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that women are lazy and just seek out men who can provide for them while they strut around having fun and doing whatever they want to.

Sure there’s plenty of gold diggers out there, but what most girls want is a man who can inject – additional – fun into their lives.

More importantly, they run away from guys who can’t.

That is why beautiful girls are not attracted to men who are considered as being just average guys from an overall perspective.

If you’re one of the millions of men who would consider yourself “just an average guy”, then you’re going to have trouble landing yourself a top notch woman.


You’re simply being too normal to be any fun.

Girls want men that have a sense of adventure and an element of danger about them, not the guys who like to play it safe and routine.

The last thing a girl wants to hear come out of a man’s mouth is “I’m just your average guy.”

That statement will never be seen as attractive.

They want to hear stuff like “You’ve never met anyone like me before” and then be shown why that statement is true through your actions.

Hot girls have the power of choice – to be selective – because men are constantly attempting to engage them in conversation.

When your competition is that stiff, you need to rise above the rest and stand out, or you will be forgotten before the sun rises the next day even if you did manage to get her number.

Those of you wondering why they always blow you off when you call, now you know the answer; you were simply forgettable.

Don’t take it personal.

You aren’t being determined to be so insignificant to these girls because there is something wrong with you or that you are making any kind of huge mistake.

It is happening to you because of something that you are not doing, and that something is setting yourself apart from the vast number of other men out there.

“Fitting in” is definitely not something you want to do if you want hot girlfriends.

Boring men are not what girls really want.

You probably aren’t a boring person, and those who do hang around you probably have a great time, but when you are out meeting new girls how are they going to know that?

It is true that girls are more socially proficient than men, but still, they can’t read your mind.

If you want to avoid being labeled as “just another average, boring guy” you are going to have to do something about it.

If not, you’ll get thrown into the bargain bin with all of the other men who failed to see the point.

That point being:

Girls want to have FUN (which I expressed earlier), and a normal guy (otherwise known as a boring guy) just can’t provide them with that.

I’m not saying that you should throw a mohawk on your head and wear a spiked leather jacket, or that you need to get a custom paint job on your car that changes color as people pass by.

Those extremes are things that men with zero game use in an attempt to lure in girls because they need material things to compensate for their overall lack of game and confidence.

What you need to be doing is focusing on making yourself be an interesting person that is different than the rest, not just someone who either looks interesting or owns cool stuff.

You must also learn how to present that to girls in a fashion that can be conveyed through a normal conversation very quickly.

There really is no point in being an adventurous, fun guy when you don’t know how to properly show those character traits to the girls you want.

The first impression is very important, and it is during that small window of time that you must show a girl why she will have fun if she hangs around you, and you aren’t like all of the other losers she’s already shot down that night.

Show her that you’ve got what girls really want immediately, and watch what happens.

So it soaks in, I’ll even say it one more time:

FUN is what girls really want in a boyfriend.

If you can give them that, success will follow.

Now you know exactly what every girl is out there searching for.

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Be sure to check it out, because until you do you’re missing out on the most powerful information on getting hot girls.

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