I’m too ugly to get a girlfriend
Want to know the real truth about your appearance and how it affects your dating life? Well, the first step is realizing that the mentality – the mere thought – of thinking “I’m too ugly to get a girlfriend” is actually holding you back from getting one far more than your physical appearance is.
That is a state of mind that is sure to get you absolutely nowhere.
Before we go any further let me hit you with a brief analogy:
By now I’m sure that you must have read about body language on this site, so you should know that even though most people spend a large majority of their lives talking, roughly 90% of the communication done between two people is actually non-verbal.
With that said I can now move on to the main subject at hand, because in theory the game of dating and seduction as a whole works in a very similar fashion.
Allow me to explain:
Even though the modern world that we live in may place a huge emphasis on the way people look, in actuality your looks can only be given credit for about 10% of your ability to get a girlfriend.
If that’s the case, then what makes up the other 90%?
Theoretically, the only thing that good looks can do for a man is get visual attention from girls, meaning that if you look like a male model girls will most likely notice you faster than other men and approach you more often.
That might seem like a blessing, but that is not always the case.
Without having solid game a good looking guy will just screw it up when a girl approaches them anyway, and the interaction will more often than not end up with undesired results.
Throughout the history of human beings the males have been granted the role of the predator, and in turn females would take on the role of the prey.
I’m speaking metaphorically, of course.
This is why girls are naturally inclined to sit back and let the men come to them and express their interest, then make the decision to pursue a relationship with that man or not.
I’m sure you are familiar with this concept, so with that in mind why would the way you look mean much at all?
It’s not like you are going to have many girls approaching you because of your looks anytime soon, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this particular article.
Besides, that is supposed to be the MAN’S role during the initial meeting process.
Master seducers know this, and that’s why they don’t waste their time worrying about if they look perfect, because it’s the girl’s role to worry about looking impeccable.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t transform into a better looking man, of course you should.
What I mean is that your skills will simply play a much larger role.
Plus, a real player knows that he has the ability and skill to get a girlfriend, all that he needs to do is approach them and begin flirting.
It does not matter if the girl is attracted to him at first sight or not, because he knows that he has the skills to overcome that obstacle once the conversation begins.
There are millions of men out there, right now, that are constantly worrying about how they look – believing that they are too ugly to get a girlfriend – and I’d be willing to bet that well over half of them have no REAL skills when it comes to attracting and picking up girls.
They think that if they look their best the girls will simply come running, but it rarely happens.
Women are far more attracted to average looking men – even ugly men – who have what it takes to approach them confidently and then spit some good game than they’re attracted to good looking guys who just sit there waiting for girls to approach them.
Like I mentioned earlier; through years of evolution women have been programmed to desire men who take the initiative, not guys who take on the female role of waiting for the women to make things happen.
You are NOT too ugly to get a girlfriend, and I can say that honestly without even knowing what you look like.
How do I know?
Well, have you ever seen a guy who was either equal to or lesser than you when it comes to his looks, but HE had a girlfriend?
I’m willing to bet you have, plenty of times.
Those types of dudes have felt the same way you are feeling right now, but the difference is that they simply didn’t let they way they look take complete control of their dating lives.
They used what they had to work with and went out there and got what they wanted.
However, there are a select few who have taken the time to learn what really matters in the dating game, and even though they may still groom themselves properly they understand that looks just get you TO the door, while the rest of your game is what gets you THROUGH it.
Should you still try to groom yourself properly; get a cool hair cut, keep up with current trends, wear fly looking clothes and the like?
Yes, because how you look will always still play a role in your rate of success. However, even the smallest changes can make a huge impact, watch this video to see it in action.
It will just never be the only determining factor, and will always be far from being the most important one.
Always remember; your appearance is only 10% of your game.
Regardless of how you look, you can STILL be 90% effective.
So are you going to keep believing that you’re too ugly to get a girlfriend although that’s completely false?
You’re never going to get a girl by thinking that way, because it’s not real.
How are you going to win the game when you are playing by the wrong rules?
It’s high time that you break outside of that mental box you’ve built around yourself, knock down those walls made of false beliefs, and start living the life you want to have.
If you’re an avid reader of mine then you should know that I always give it to you straight.
I’m and expert at this stuff and if there was such a thing as being too ugly to get a girlfriend I’d just flat out tell you that you’re hopeless unless you either become famous or rich, but that’s not the reality we live in.
You CAN get a girlfriend, I’ve seen it happen (and helped make it happen through the training services I offer) more times than I can count.
What makes you different than the other not so good looking guys I’ve helped get hot girlfriends?
Nothing at all, except for the fact that you just don’t believe you can do it yet.
Now that I’ve shown you the truth, don’t be stupid and keep believing that you don’t have what it takes.
Read this entire web site carefully and try to incorporate everything that you learn into your daily life and routine, you’ll notice dramatic results and your old way of thinking “I’m too ugly to get a girlfriend” will be a thing of the past.
After that, when you are ready to take the next step and really start getting those “top shelf” girls, make sure that you read my Black Book; it contains all of my best kept secrets for getting girls that I’ve been using and teaching successfully for years.
You have no idea what you’re missing out on!