Quick Tip : Approaching

How to approach groups of women

Most guys are more hesitant to approach groups of women than they are with approaching a woman who is by herself. I can totally see the logic in that, but I also see how illogical…

Quick Tip : Approaching

Never plan out your conversations

Never try to pre-plan the dialog before you approach a girl, it will not work no matter how good you get at memorizing your “lines”. For example, you should not try to think of “something…

Knowledge is power. Always listen to and observe everything, including other’s conversations. If you take the time to observe a woman before you approach her, you may notice something she is doing, wearing or talking…

Quick Tip : Approaching

Meet as many people as possible

While you are out, it is important to avoid having “tunnel vision” and only focusing your energy on groups that contain potential mates. Talking to as many people as possible within the venue regardless of…

If you notice a girl that you like but she is with one of her friends, try this approach. My favorite way to do this is to talk to the “uglier” friend first in order…

If you get rejected, take a break for a few minutes before approaching another woman. Most women will be insulted if they think that they are your second choice, so it will ruin your chances…

Quick Tip : Approaching

Using situational openers on women

The best thing to say to a girl you’ve never met before is something based on observation, look at her clothes, bags and other stuff you can see to get an idea of something she…

Quick Tip : Approaching

How to avoid using common openers

There are 3 questions that 90% of the guys use when trying to open girls: “You are so beautiful!” or some variation of this, “Do you have a boyfriend?” or some variation of this, “Can…

As long as you have a smile on your face you can approach her any way you want: straight on, diagonally, backward, even zig-zagging while doing Navy-Seal somersaults and yelling “hoo-ah!” (though I wouldn’t recommend…

Quick Tip : Approaching

Give her time to get comfortable

Never approach a woman the minute she arrives at the bar, club or party. If you do, you are doomed to failure. Instead, give her time to get used to her surroundings while you observe…