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<center>Flattery will get you everywhere!</center>
<center>by The Player</center> 

Flattery will get you everywhere!

Always compliment women and they will always feel good about you, but don't overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points (which you are, but you don't want them to know that). Try to sound sincere by giving her a unique compliment that most people will overlook.

For instance, if she looks like she's just had her hair done, say "I really like your hair, did you just have it done?". Also always remember that when it comes to a REALLY HOT woman, never tell her how beautiful she is. Every other guy that has tried and failed with her has said that, so learn from their mistakes and tell her how talented or smart she is.

Chances are she has rarely (if ever) received such a compliment, and no matter how beautiful she is... she won't be able to stop smiling once she hears it: Mission accomplished!

Always be on the look-out for things you can compliment on. I will never cease to stress how important it is to be aware of everything that women say and do, because if you hear and see everything you will never be at a loss for words, and in this case, at a loss for compliments.

Never walk up to a girl you have never met before and open up with a compliment, you should always time your compliment so that it catches her by surprise. You might be thinking "If I open up with a compliment won't that catch her by surprise?". Actually yes, but she will view it as a pick up line because you said it before anything else, and by now you should know that pick up lines are a no-no.

Instead, try this method that I've found to be most effective :

Approach and introduce yourself, a simple "Hi, I'm Bob" would be sufficient. Upon receiving her name, ask a question based on what you observed before approaching (if you did not give yourself a few minutes to observe, you may find yourself at a loss for words). For instance, if you noticed her talking to someone for a while, you could say "Is she a friend of yours?" or "Why haven't I seen you in here before, your friend comes here once in a while". When she answers your question, hit her with the compliment, which should also be made based on what you've observed. However, you should try to say something funny in response to her answer to your question in order to break the ice before delivering your compliment, if nothing funny can be said (which often is the case) just forget about it and move on to the compliment.

Now you are a master of flattery, get out there and start making women feel good about themselves, which will make them start feeling good about you in return.

By the way, remember to smile when you give a compliment, you will find out that it's highly contagious.

This article was written by The Player, author of the ground breaking seduction guide <a href="http://hop.clickbank.net/?YOUR_ID/blackbook">The Player's Black Book</a>.

Good luck!

The Player 
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Issue 3

Listen, Don't Think

How many times can you recall that you were engaged in a good conversation with a woman, but then all of a sudden you could not think of anything to say... and in turn this ushered in the dreaded awkward silence, and both of you immediately felt uncomfortable?

Do you know why this happens?

The reason is simple... it's because you were THINKING instead of LISTENING. Good conversationalists never think about what to say next, they know that by doing so you can easily ruin a good thing. The dialogue in a conversation is not as important as the FLOW, so you must learn to focus your energy on keeping the conversation going rather than on saying the "perfect" thing.

Having a conversation with a woman in some ways is the exact opposite of dancing with a woman. When dancing the man should always lead, but in conversation that is the woman's job... they are the experts remember?

To succeed at holding a smooth flowing conversation with a woman the only thing that you need to do is REALLY listen to what she is saying. Give her your complete attention, forget about what is going on around you and focus on only one thing... her. If you can learn to do that, she will "guide" you through the entire conversation.

It's that easy!

One of the fundamental skills of a good conversationalist is the ability to allow the conversation to flow smoothly from one subject to the next without ever "going backwards" by making a statement about the last subject once you've already moved on to the next. Women are very good at this... so good actually, that they are constantly giving men "hints" as to the direction that they want the conversation to go.

Pick up on these "hints" and your job is done!

Check out these examples :

You - "Hey, did you get a chance to read that book that I told you about?"

Her - "Yeah... but on my way back from the library I got a flat tire."

Did you notice how she no longer wants to talk about the book and is attempting to guide the conversation to the subject of her flat tire?

Here's another :

You - "So do you come to this club often? I haven't seen you before and I always remember a pretty face."

Her - "This is actually my first time here, I just moved here from Chicago to go to college."

This time she gave you two options to choose from : Chicago or school. Did you pick up on both of these right away? If you did, good job... you're getting the hang of this. Follow the woman's lead and you will NEVER be at a loss-for-words again!

This has been an extract taken from the Conversation chapter of "The Player's Black Book". For a more in-depth view on this subject you can check out the full version of the book by clicking here.

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[firstname], talk to you tomorrow!

Your friend,

The Player

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