Pick up girls in high school
Why would we have a guide for how to pick up girls in high school on this website?
Well, the most obvious reason is that this is a time in a young man’s life where dating first becomes a major part of his existence and can affect other aspects of his life in a positive or negative way.
Your social life during this time builds you into the type of adult you will become.
Also, if you learn how to pick up girls in high school you are going to have a huge advantage over the other guys who don’t learn how to properly attract women until later on in their adult lives.
Moving on now. Let’s start at the beginning:
The first day of school
At this time everybody who is anybody is going to try and look good.
The first few days of high school are going to be tough, and from my experience, there are going to be many tests (and not the academic kind).
You of course want to make it to the top, have the highest social value and attract all the females.
This isn’t going to be an easy task, but it is possible.
At the beginning of my first high school year I had fairly low social value, but I wasn’t completely at the bottom.
Then after 2 months of studying the information on this website, I nearly made it to the very top.
Yes, this stuff works very fast, especially when you’re young with a relatively blank slate and you are hungry for knowledge.
What’s my number one rule to succeeding socially in high school?
Become an alpha male
This doesn’t mean you need to be the star quarterback on the varsity team.
Yes, that dude is going to be an alpha male, yet not the only one. Every different social group in school will have it’s own alpha male.
Even the chess club will have an alpha.
So what is an alpha male? What are the responsibilities of an alpha male? Most importantly, how do you become an alpha male?
The most simple definition is that an alpha male is the leader of his group (immediate social circle).
He is the person with the highest social value in that group, the one everyone listens to and the one who the females will pick over all the other guys within the group.
Sounds good, right?
However it isn’t easy to achieve this special position within your group, especially when you’re going to have to deal with all the other challenges and obstacles that come along in high school.
The alpha male’s responsibility is to lead his group and to be responsible for the group’s decisions. The alpha male has the last word, but if something in the group gets fucked up, he’s the one everyone will expect to fix the problem.
Being a leader takes effort. It is earned.
You’re also going to have to be very careful with your actions as an alpha male.
If you yourself fuck up, your group will lose some respect for you and be more hesitant to follow your lead in the future.
Being the alpha male has its positive side and negative side, but it is mostly positive.
The alpha male of the group is always calm, takes his time to make the best decisions, values himself above all else and the never backs down from a challenge.
This next part is very important:
Be ready for a pop quiz
Other alpha males – and even hot girls – will constantly be testing “how alpha” you truly are.
They will test you to see how much of a man you really are, if you really know how to pick up girls in high school, if you truly are a leader and what it takes to get you to back down.
How do you deal with this? Here are some ways:
Don’t be reactive. Downplay their attempts; you’re too good for them. If you’re not reactive they will look stupid and unimportant.
Treating them like they aren’t worth your time will show others that your time is more important than theirs, thus raising your value.
If it is unavoidable, take care of it in a calm manner and simply let them do more talking than you.
Make them say a ton of stuff that makes them look like an idiot while you carefully choose your word, making sure they hit home.
Let them get the most words in, while you get the last word in. Just make sure you don’t lose your cool and you stay calm.
Above all, do not submit.
Never back down and do what you need to do to win.
The moment you back down is the moment you lose your status as an alpha male, because that is the most defining trait of an alpha male in high school; he never backs down and hates to lose.
Always turn the tables
Unlike other alpha males, hot girls can do more than tease you. They like to play games with your head.
How do you deal with this?
Keep yourself occupied with many hot girls at a time. Be seen as a guy that all of the girls know.
This will create jealousy and work positively for you. If an hot girl is teasing you, tease her back so that you will still be in control of the conversation and also show her that you are the dominant one.
One of the easiest ways to pick up girls in high school is turning a somewhat confrontational interaction into something the girl will walk away from thinking that you’re an attractive guy.
Believe it or not, beating a hot girl in an argument will make her desire you.
It’s strange, but it’s also true.
Maintain your status
Don’t give a shit about what other people do or say, because you have higher value than all of them (remember that).
If you act care free it will be viewed as a display of confidence.
So stop giving a shit.
Being an alpha male is impossible if people are not aware of your presence, so make friends.
It is very easy to make friends in school.
I won’t give you openers for this or anything, because that is completely unnecessary.
People will actually WANT to be your friend if you display high social value and have fun at all times.
This will also allow you to pick up girls in high school very easily.
If you are not in a fun environment and there is an overall low energy level around you, make it a high energy level.
If you yourself are feeling high energy, talk to others because it is infectious.
Be very social and talk to them about things they might be interested in.
Don’t fall into traps
When you finally do get a girlfriend in high school, try to keep it discreet (even though it won’t be).
The first things you’re going to want to do are go brag to everyone, but resist this urge.
Tell maybe your best friends and then shut up.
The reason for this is if you go brag to everyone, you will be displaying low social value and acting like it’s a big deal for you.
Just so you know, despite your efforts on staying quiet, chances are your loud mouth girlfriend will tell everybody she runs into, so there’s really no reason in doing it yourself anyway.
The next thing that’s going to happen is that everyone you run into will ask you about it, especially girls.
Act natural about it, like it’s not a big deal.
For the next week or two, you’re going to feel like a celebrity within your social circle. Enjoy it while it lasts (even though you should always be the star alpha of your social circle anyways).
One think you should know about girls in high school is that their friends have a huge influence on them.
It is in your best interest to make friends with her friends no matter what you think about them.
Besides, having a lot of female friends means that you will always have a ton of options available to you when you need to pick up girls in high school and get yourself a new girlfriend.
I remember one specific time when I blew my chances with a girl because her friend pissed me off and I made the mistake of getting into a name-calling argument with her.
That didn’t end well.
When you are in a relationship other guys will be touching her, flirting with her and bad mouthing you because they are jealous.
Unless they go too far with it by doing something like slapping her ass or disrespecting her, you don’t need to worry.
Almost all of these guys are needy average dudes with no game and zero chance of stealing your girl.
Think of it this way:
If someone can take your girl from you, then either they earned it and deserve her or she’s just not a keeper.
You’re a player with a shitload of game and can pick up girls in high school with your eyes closed. Ignore what the other loser guys are doing with her. It’s not worth your time.
To end on the right note, just have fun in high school, that’s the main thing.
High school is just a game and should be treated like one.
Don’t ever stress yourself out over something that will just be a distant memory a few years down the road.
Make the most of it and enjoy yourself.
If you want to learn how to become the most popular guy in your school and get all of the hottest girls, read “A Crash Course In Seduction”.
With the info in that guide, you’ll absolutely crush the competition.