Observe Then Approach
Knowledge is power. Always listen to and observe everything, including other’s conversations.
If you take the time to observe a woman before you approach her, you may notice something she is doing, wearing or talking about which in-a-way “tells you” what to say when you try to spark up a conversation with her.
It is a common myth that in order to be successful you need to approach a woman immediately once you’ve seen her.
The most common being the “3 second rule”, which is very effective once you’re really good at approaching women, but can also be a huge pitfall for beginners.
Once your skills have evolved you will easily be able to think of unique openers to use impromptu in the field within 3 seconds, but during your journey of skill development, it is much more important to plan your moves properly than it is to act upon impulse.
Take baby steps and give yourself room to grow, as this is not an overnight process.
When you approach a woman within 30 seconds with a great situational opener, you will have a much better chance of success than you would have if you approached her within 3 seconds with a lame, canned or common line.[php snippet=1]