How To Win Back A Contact Gone Stale - 50% success rate
Unfortunately, online game means that girls may stop talking to you at any time no matter how good your game actually is. The simple logic behind this is easy to get a grip on: they do it because it's easy, as the social pressures of cutting it off are very mild compared to “real life”.
However, this same logic should also give you comfort and make you not care much when it does happen, since the social pressures of getting ignored aren't that bad either in online dating. I'm never angry when this happens, and I'll even randomly stop talking to chicks also sometimes, so getting mad would kind of make me a hypocrite.
Everyone has the right to decide that you are not right for them, and so do you. But you also have the right to have one more chance to prove that their perception of you is wrong.
With that in mind, I decided to try to come up with an e-mail to send to a HB that hasn't returned my last message in an effort to get her back into my mix. After much trial and error, this is what I've found works best, and with it I've been able to get about half the girls back. If a girl isn't answering you, wait at least two weeks and then send her the following:
E-mail Title: “I’m Phenomenal”
“The e-mail title pretty much says it all. If you have chosen to move on, thats fine, but it really needs to be said that I'm absolutely spectacular. And if you are just waiting a really long time to write back then, well, let the power of my utter awesomeness guide your hands as you type: Dear Player87..."
I've field tested this a lot and it does work. However, it is important to note that unless you go out of your way to hold her interest in the next e-mail, (DHV, neg, the works), she'll start ignoring you again immediately. But this will at least give you a shot at bringing her back.
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