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Online Neg Strategy That Works Wonders
I recently had somewhat of a breakthrough concerning online dating. I'm currently hooking up with a couple of girls, but a lot is never enough so I'm back to finding women online as I've been somewhat "busy" otherwise. Anyway, in the second e-mail, after you've sent your opener (check other sections of this guide for info on some great online openers), give the following response (let's say the girls name is Allie):
“Hey Al, you go by Al right? I don't know many shortenings of that name and I'd like to avoid typing that last "lie" as I'm a busy man. So until further notice, Al it is.”
Follow it up with a great DHV story about how "ridiculous your week has been" or something like that. I've field tested this three times so far, and each time its gotten a great response, and has shifted the girls into a much more comfortable state. This shows that you are beyond the "what do you like to do for fun?" bullshit questions and are instead being playful and having some fun teasing her, women are very attracted to this kind of behavior. Also, remember that it really breaks the tension if you follow it with a funny DHV story.
Here's another example, I used it for a girl named Bree (and called her "B").
Here's her response:
“Okay, first to be discussed is this new 'B' nickname. I'm going to allow it on paper, because I see your point that B is just so much faster and convenient than B...R...E...E... However, when spoken, I'm gonna need you to spill out the whole thing. Think that's a good compromise? After all, it is only one syllable.”
Notice how she said “When spoken...”, which indirectly hints at the fact that she expects us to meet in person or at least talk on the phone in the near future. This is evidence of her expecting our relationship to escalate because my cleaver use of negs has made her become attracted to me. Essentially, her saying that was an IOI that let me know my game worked.
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