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The Best Online Opener - HUGE Response Rate
Probably the most difficult part of online dating is the opener. Lots of guys say negging is the way to go, but I've developed my own theory on the subject. I was getting laid online before I knew the seduction community even existed, so all my material in this realm is original.
The most important thing you can do, no... the most IMPORTANT thing you MUST do is make the woman feel individualized. Her online day involves clearing her inbox of hundreds of e-mails from guys that are all similar, all begging, and all AFC's. You MUST stand out or you will fail, plain and simple. How? Well, she knows that most men simply send many similar letters out hoping to get a single response from one of the women. She's evolved to recognize and ignore these types of letters. So what's the trick to getting your message ever read and not thrown into the trash bin with the rest? Here it is:
Make her feel like she is better than the other girls online on a deep, intellectual, and spiritual level. This must be done not from a needy or pedestaling stance, but instead give the vibe that you are just sick of the other women online and that she is a breath of fresh air. Doing it in this fashion will ensure that you do not lose any value in the process.
Girls compete against one another. We know this and use it in the field. Yet for some reason, I've never heard of anyone using it online. Over many iterations I have developed a canned opener that makes every girl genuinely believe that I have written her a touching, individualized compliment. It has an OUTSTANDING response rate. Though I won't post the whole thing, I'll post the main points, and you'll get the idea:
It begins with this:
"I read your profile and noticed something that I can't say about many girls on this website, you actually have a personality. Strike that and I'll take it one step further, you actually have a pulse."
That line catches her eye with both wit and originality. I go on to explain why she is different, and I even congratulate her for it. Though everything I'm writing is canned, she is oblivious and consequently touched. Then comes the humor:
"I've read vanilla profile after white bread profile on this website and came to believe I was dealing mostly with robots. And nobody wants to date a robot, they are made of metal and have claws."
The target will love this. In her response she'll assure you she isn't made of metal or has claws in some joke retort.
Close by asking her to check out your joke-laden profile. If she's interested, tell her to shoot you an e-mail back. You look forward to hearing back from her (say this, it shows confidence).
As of right now, this method of opening has proved to be the most effective out of anything that you'll find anywhere else. Use it liberally.
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