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I know this girl that already has a boyfriend, but she treats me better than she treats him. She flirts with me but I refuse to flirt back because I think that it's wrong. We seem to talk very well too. What should i do?

- Nathan

Hi Nathan,

If I were in your position (and I have been before), only one factor could make me decide against getting with this girl. I strongly believe in loyalty between friends, and if you are good friends with her boyfriend, then my advice is to maintain your neutral position. Women come and go... so do most friends, but women tend to come and go as fast as the mailman. However, everything IS fair in love and war - if you are simply acquainted with her boyfriend, or don't know him at all, then you would be neglecting yourself if you did not jump on this opportunity. One of the major things that separates us players from the rest is that we never miss a golden opportunity such as the one your are currently being presented with. Trust me, if you don't make a move you will always be wondering "What if".

Another thing you should be asking yourself is why would she be flirting and talking with you so much. It is obvious that she is not happy with her current relationship in some way, or that she notices qualities in you that her boyfriend lacks. Either way, she feels that she would be more happy with you, so my advice is to make her more happy :)

P.S. Taking someone else's girl is a complicated task. Take is slow at first, maybe just mildly flirting back one day, then stepping it up a notch the next. Keep me informed and I'll guide you through it. I also suggest that you use my "attention trick" which has proved to be extremely effective in situations like yours. You can find it on my web site in the rulebook section, #4 under the top 10 rules.

- The Player


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