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Sup Player,
Alright here goes. There is this hot girl
I know and talk to at times. It's so obvious she wants
me badly, it's pathetic really. She's had a thing for me
for a long time, I just finally started getting the
balls to run the game on the ladies. So I've been
talking to her lately trying to get to know her, find
out things about her, e.t.c. She gives me all the
signs like: Her eyes get big when I talk to her, when
she speaks her shoulders are directly pointing to me
and she is slightly leaning in and talking, and when I
smile as she's speaking she smiles back, when I see her
we have eye contact and she smiles, I grab her waste
and say hey to her. Anyways, occasionally she asks me
to give her a ride home...and I trip up and make up
some excuse NOT to take her. "What the hell is the
matter with this idiot" is what your thinking I'm sure.
The reason I decline taking her home is I'm thinking
she wants sex with me (which is great obviously) but
once I'm in her house I don't know how to go about
playing the game correctly to get her aroused and let
her know I want it just as badly as she wants it. Any
Advice would be greatly appreciated.
Actually Anthony, while I was reading that I was thinking "Play on player!". I
almost always make up an excuse the first time (and in some cases the second
also) that I am given an obvious open invitation to have sex with a girl
that I like... nothing could make her want you MORE! Women love it when we
play hard-to-get, and once you put that strategy into play she will stop at
no means in her attempts to get you into bed. That is not what you need help
with, but I just wanted to let you know that your on the right track.
However, it appears that you've already played that game enough, and it's
time for you to get your groove on. Here is a simple strategy for you to
employ while you are at her house to make everything go smoothly...
Once your over there, keep your cool and just act as you normally would with
her in any other setting... sit on the sofa and begin talking. When she is
least expecting it (try to interrupt her in the middle of a sentence) ask
her if she likes surprises. If she answers yes, kiss her immediately. If she
answers no, kiss her anyway and say "My bad, I forgot that you don't like
surprises". She will absolutely love this unique approach and once you get
past that first kiss everything else will be easy. Just remember not to
think about it too much before you ask her the question, because if you do
the anticipation will make you nervous, and nervousness impairs your ability
to be "smooth".
-The Player
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