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Hey Brad,
I read your horse girl opener, and I thought it seemed
pretty funny, but I was a little skeptical of it actually working.
But since I trust you're better at this than me, I committed to
trying it at least ten times before I decide. Let me tell you, it
was a far out experience! A few girls told me to get lost, but most
of them got attracted to me. They started touching me, their eyes
would light up; they were flipping their hair around and
everything. I hear that that's a sign of attraction. One girl even
asked me for MY phone number. That was not what I expected in my
first day out. I have a couple of questions. First, how come some
girls will respond so badly, but others will love it? I don't get
that. Second, how did you come up with this opener? Is it a true
story?"
-Jerry, Chicago
Hey buddy, great question. Let me tell you a bit of background on
this.
Before I was good with women, I had a major problem with being put
in the "Friend Zone."
I'm sure you know what I'm talking about.
I would make advances on a women and she would say "Wow, I'm
flattered. You're a really sweet guy. But I think we should just be
friends. We have such a great friendship. I wouldn't want to mess
it up."
To me, that was like a shotgun blast to the head.
It hurt so much.
Sometimes I had been obsessing over that woman for weeks or months,
planning the perfect way to to move things in a romantic direction.
Then, whammo, I'm shot down.
Has this ever happened to you?
Sucks, right?
Sucks big time!
When I was a beginner at approaching women, I had something similar
going on.
I would go up and approach, the girl seemed to like me, and then
after a few more minutes, she'd tell me "let's just be friends."
It was just like in the old days, except the whole thing was
compressed into 15 minutes instead of 6 months.
Well guess what, it still sucks!
Being in the friend zone always sucks.
So I went through a period where I was hostile to the whole idea of
having new female friends. I already had plenty of close female
friends. I was looking to get sexual with women, not get together
and knit sweaters together.
I decided that I'd rather have a woman reject me outright then put
me in the friend zone. This was the smartest thing I could have
done.
From that point on, it was like I had some kind of special power
over women. I had this attitude that screamed "Hey darling, I can
take it or leave it with you, so make up your mind so I can hurry
up and either bang you, or move on to the next chick." Perhaps it
sounds crude, but it worked like magic!
That's where the Horse Girl opener came in. It was hilariously
funny to women, yet it was borderline arrogant. Chicks would reject
me about 20% of the time. The other 80% of the time they would be
massively attracted to me.
Now this is the best part:
Total number of times I've been put in the friend zone: ZERO!!!!!!
It was like a dream come true.
What I learned was that the only thing that's going to work is
massive attraction.
Everything else falls short.
If a girl likes you, that's fine, but she probably won't have sex
with you just because she sort of likes you.
She won't do you just because you're cool, just because you're hot,
just because of your clothes, just because you're funny.... it's
only gonna happen if she is massively attracted to you.
So that's what I started going for.
My goal was to get massive attraction or an instant rejection.
And life was so much more fun once I started living this way.
Not only was I having a lot more sex, but I never again did I
worry about whether a woman liked me or not. I wasn't constantly
hanging on her every word, hoping for her approval.
Before I made this discovery, my ego was being smacked around like
a pi?ta. Now, there was nothing a woman could do to upset me. It
was an amazing leap of faith.
If you are enjoying this discussion of openers and how they work,
you should pick up my book of openers, it's called "Instant
Attraction."
It's full of great stuff. There's beginner stuff that will get the
girl to talk to you every time, and even advanced stuff that you
can work your way up to.
Click HERE to get it now!
-Brad P.
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