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What's up? I need some personal advice from you about this girl I like because I can't find a solution on the website...
- Steve
Sure. Explain your situation and I'll help you out.
-The Player
Well, I hooked up with her about three days ago, and have not heard from her since. I don't know what to do when I see her, should I hug her or take her on a date? Please tell me the steps.
-Steve
Don't act like it's a big deal at all, you want her to think that you hook up with new people all the time. Girls are attracted to men that appear to be "in demand", so if you want her to REALLY want you... badly, then do the following:
The next time you see her act casual and comfortable, as if you never even hooked up at all. Make sure you don't talk to her for a long time, 3 minutes max, then tell her you've got to go do something and leave. Girls are also attracted to men that are busy all the time, this makes you not look boring. Because you've practically ignored her, which will drive her crazy, she will begin wondering if she did something wrong when you hooked up, and you will be on her mind 24/7, which is a very good thing. Wait another day or two, then meet up with her again. This time your going to ask her out, and she will say yes because she has been thinking about you so much, and you did not appear to be desperate at all since you did not pay much attention to her the previous day.
When you ask her out do it with confidence and say something that does not sound like you really want her that bad. Most guys make the mistake of saying something lame like "Do you want to go out sometime?", which only sets them up for rejection. You must say it in a way that will give her the impression that you are used to getting what you want. What I've found to be very effective is "I want to take you out sometime, what do you say?". That almost sounds demanding, which... believe it or not, women love.
Hope this help, let me know how things work out...
-The Player
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