Tips – Finding Women Online
When you’re trying to find the right woman online (or women) through an online dating service, the first thing you’ll notice is that it isn’t as easy as those TV commercials and online ads make it seem to be. You need to do some serious filtering just to narrow down the good ones that have potential.
This process can become overwhelming and very time consuming if you don’t have a solid game plan, but fortunately for you that is what this article is all about.
However, before we begin make sure to read my previous article on how to make a perfect online dating profile!
You don’t want to start sending messages to women online until you’ve got your own profile perfected and ready for them to view, otherwise you might never receive a reply.
Alright, so you’ve already created a witty, original dating profile that displays your high value with pictures of both your body and face, and included a kick ass description that demonstrates (not states) your personality type a positive traits.
After posting it up on the online dating sites of your choice, you could just leave it at that and hope the women on there will begin sending messages your way, but where’s the fun in that when you’ve got thousands of hot women online to browse through and choose from?
Now its time to find the right women and figure out who to choose out of the masses, which can actually prove to be much more difficult than it appears to be at first glance.
You really can’t just browse through the profiles saying to yourself “I’d hit that” and always expect to get what her profile is promising.
I’ve met with at least 50 women that I found on online dating websites and I wouldn’t have even messaged them unless they looked hot in their profile pictures. However, something interesting will happen when you see some of them in person; they look nothing like their profile pictures at all.
Many times they’ll look like the ugly sister of the girl that you thought you were supposed to meet!
Here are a few basic rules to follow that will help you to filter through the “fake hot women” and find the right ones that are worth spending your time pursuing:
The Pictures Tell The Story
Try to find women online that are following the exact same rules that you are following when it comes to posting pictures:
Close up of her face, followed by a full body-shot, then finally any of various pictures they want to use.
The more pictures the better.
Women are sneaky as all hell, and they will do anything they can to hide their true physique. One common thing they do is offer a full body shot but provide it in a full group picture where they are awkwardly bending or partially obscured by something else.
When you see this, alarms should go off in your head because more times than not this is deliberate on her part to hide her true physique. If you are truly interested in the girl, enlarge the picture and study what little of her tummy is showing.
I’ve found so many rolls this way I could start a bakery.
Also, if you only have a single head shot to work with, move on.
Always remember: if a woman REALLY is hot, they will choose pictures that demonstrate that fact, not attempt to hide it.
Anything that looks shady probably is.
Beware Of The “Body Type”
If you are using a feature rich online dating website to find women, always make sure to pay very close attention to how each woman describes her body type.
“Full figured” and “more to love” are all obvious no’s (unless you’re into that sort of thing).
However, what if she says “about average”?
Guess what? Her idea of “average” and your idea of “average” is most likely very different.
Her body is not attractive, and this rule has ALWAYS applied in my experience.
That leaves things like “athletic” and “toned” and “slender” as the only applicable options. If you get athletic and toned, that’s usually a good sign, but remain on the lookout since butch women with linebacker shoulders will choose this description also.
This makes slender by far the best description.
If she’s putting slender in her online profile and is anything but, you have every right to call her out on it when the two of you meet in person. It’s just ignorant and rude (and it does happen, unfortunately) to blatantly lie about what you look like on an online dating site.
Small fibs you can let slide as long as the person looks at least mostly like what you were led to believe. However, if she says that she’s thin and ends up weighting 170 pounds, that’s just not cool.
Yoga Pants + Squats = Sexy!
Don’t pay any attention to how much they exercise. They’re lying most of the time.
If she says that she goes to the gym four times a week, she is probably talking about the one week three years ago when she went four times.
In reality she may go once a week, or twice per month for all you know.
On the other hand, she could be telling the truth.
Regardless, how often they say that they exercise is so unreliable it’s best for you to just completely ignore it.
The ones who lie about it ruin it for the women online who are telling the truth, but unfortunately the honest girls are the minority so you must assume the worst until you see for yourself.
It really doesn’t matter though, because if her body is banging who cares how often she needs to work on it, right?
The results matter, not the effort.
These rules sound simple, but they are important. It’s awkward to meet a woman that you met online in person and realize that your value is so much higher than hers that you feel sick to your stomach and embarrassed to be stuck on a date with them.
Not to mention that you’ll be extremely pissed off because of all of the time you wasted gaming her. For that reason, always keep the first date short (I do coffee) unless you are SURE she’s hot and you will be satisfied.
The last thing you want to do is waste money on a date with a woman you want nothing to do with.
After you find some hot women online and meet with them in person, how do you go about sealing the deal with a perfect date?
You do that by using some good game an insider secrets that you learned from reading “The New Breed”, that’s how.
With the tricks you will learn from that, all you’ll ever do is win.
Paragon Project Member