A girl friend into a girlfriend
One of the most frequent questions that I am asked is “How do I turn a girl friend into a girlfriend?”
This is a very common problem because many guys fail to make their intentions clear from the start and fall into the friends zone.
Once you’re there, it can be difficult to get back out.
I’m not going to lie to you and tell you that turning a girl friend into a girlfriend is easy to do, but it can be done.
The best way to avoid getting into a situation like this in the future is to immediately show a romantic interest in each attractive girl you meet and would potentially date, that way you’ll never end up in the friends zone again.
Prevention is the best cure.
However, many of you may already be classified as a “friend” to the exact girl that you want to be in a relationship with.
If that is the case, this is what you need to do:
You need to man up and let her know how you feel.
Not tomorrow, right now!
The longer you linger in the friends zone the less your chance of success will be.
Do not worry about what she will say, that does not matter because if she rejects you the friendship will end.
That may sounds crazy to you right now – but trust me – it’s a GOOD thing.
It is not healthy for your ego, confidence, and social value to hang around a girl that you want to be with when the feelings are not mutual.
Your confidence level will drop continuously until you put an end to this, one way or the other.
If you don’t, this can ultimately affect your game with other girls, dramatically.
With that in mind you should now know what has to be done.
You need to decide if you are going to step up to the plate and put it all on the line (I told you it was not going to be easy).
If you do, she will look at you in a whole new way because you had the balls to ask her out, since she probably already has the impression that you were scared to express your feelings for her.
Oh, did I forget to mention that she already knows that you like her?
You may not think so. Perhaps you tried to hide it very well.
Regardless, she definitely knows bro.
When you tell her how you feel you must do it in a smooth and confident manner, in such a way that will surprise and impress her.
Transforming a girl friend into a girlfriend must be done without fear of failure.
Here are a few examples so you know how to go about it:
“I think that it’s obvious I’m interested in you as more than a friend. I like you a lot and think that you feel it too. What do you say we start slow and see what happens?”
“When I picture the ideal girlfriend in my head all I think about is finding one like you. I didn’t feel like this at first, but everything about going out with you just makes sense to me. Let’s give it a try.”
Now the example below is the most effective, but only works if her friends (that are girls) think you’re a decent guy:
“I don’t want to be your friend, I want to be your boyfriend. Yes, I’m asking you out, but I don’t want an answer right now. Think about it for a while and then let me know what you want to do.”
If she attempts to answer you right away, cover her mouth and shake your head while saying:
“I told you, do not answer right now. Even if you are going to say yes, think about it for a while.”
You want to do this because the next thing every girl will do after being propositioned in such a way is call her closest friends to tell them what has just happened to her.
Even if you are only slightly “in” with her friends, they will respond by saying things like “He’s so sweet” or “That’s so romantic”, and they will definitely give her their approval to date you.
It will seem like a real-life version of a script from their favorite chick flicks, they simply won’t be able to not see what comes next.
Girls are GREATLY influenced by their friend’s opinions.
If she gets a green light from them, she will definitely hit the gas.
Turning a girl friend into a girlfriend is never an easy task, but it’s far from being an impossible one.
Now you know how to do it, the question is, do you have what it takes to make it happen?
Nothing worth having in life comes risk free.
Always remember that.
Actually, something does come risk free – my book.
If you read my book and don’t see the exact results with girls that you want, then you don’t pay anything at all!
I’m being serious, go have a look at it right now.
The Player’s Black Book