How to get girls to notice you
If one of your main problems with women is figuring out how to get girls to notice you exist, right now you are probably frustrated or even depressed.
That is not good place to be, as it can create problems that extend beyond your dating life. It’s very unhealthy.
Have a look at these statements:
“I just want to be nice to her and prove that I love her.”
“I want to treat her like a princess and make her happy.”
“If she knew what a nice guy I was, then she’d like me!”
So goes the thoughts of every nice guy who has a hard time getting women.
The fact that you are reading this is a step in the right direction. You are stuck and need some help.
Don’t be afraid to admit it, we were all there at one time or another.
The good news is that you’ve come to the right place to try and change that.
This website is by far the best site on the internet to learn this stuff – and be warned – there’s a LOT of bad advice out there.
I am speaking from personal experience when I say that bad advice can lead you off on the wrong path for a long time.
When I first started out, I just Googled “how to get a girl to like you”.
I found some bad advice, and then proceeded to waste 18 months chasing after a girl that I had placed on a pedestal.
Of course she rejected me (looking back I don’t know how I couldn’t have seen it coming) and I had a mental breakdown.
It was this pain that motivated me to seek out the answers to the questions I was asking.
That’s when I came across this site, and I have never looked back.
I had more results in a MONTH after reading this site than I did my entire life, and now I’m the one on here giving advise.
That’s one crazy transformation!
What a lot of sites don’t tell you is that you literally have to change the way that you look at the world.
You need to have a shift in consciousness:
Realize that you ARE capable of getting any girl.
Realize that NO girl is perfect.
Realize that YOU must lead the relationship.
Realize that there will be a significant amount of mental readjustment before you achieve what you want to achieve.
Realize that you mist BE A MAN.
Once this shift is made you will literally walk out of the house one day and will be able to read social interactions like a book.
You will have the ability to read how people are feeling, who they are attracted to, who they like or dislike, and so much more.
Everything will look differently to you than it does right now.
Most importantly, people will treat you differently; you’ll not just be able to get girls to notice you, they will begin to desire you.
The biggest realization I had while learning this stuff is this:
Being “nice” to a girl is not the natural way of things.
Being “nice” to a girl and buying her gifts, flowers, presents and diamonds was invented by greeting card, jewelry and chocolate companies to take advantage of human behavior and make a profit from it.
They know every guys wants that extra edge on the competition and to get the girl, so they programmed our culture into thinking that their products are exactly what we need if you want to get girls to notice you and be with you.
You’ve seen the same diamond commercials that I have; the ones who make it seem like you aren’t doing good enough unless you drop a grand on some stupid tennis bracelet for her birthday.
What a joke.
Want to know the raw, uncut truth? Here it is:
You can not buy a girl’s affection with material things and you can not convince her to be attracted to you through logic.
What was the first thing I did which got me real results?
I ironed my clothes.
So simple and stupid, I know. BUT it worked!
Then I started working on my body language.
Then I learned how to read a girl’s body language.
Then I began practicing approaching women.
Then I figured out how to get phone numbers.
One tiny step at a time, and I improved. Before I knew it word had gotten around that I was a cool guy who was desired by women.
When you get to that point, trying to get girls to notice you is simply a non-factor. It just becomes something that happens and you don’t need to consciously think about it.
Do yourself a favor and read everything on this site. Internalize it.
The journey has begun.
Once you are ready to learn the most incredible dating tricks ever discovered that will make EVERY girl want YOU, have a look at “The New Breed”.
Believe me, it’s so good that you’ll be mad at yourself for not finding out about it sooner!