Build Confidence Rapidly
Would you believe me if I told you that my best secret for how to build confidence doesn’t require you to actually do anything at all?
What if I also said that this same “lazy method” will also build your self confidence at an epic speed compared to any other strategy that you could ever possibly use?
Unlikely, you say?
Well then, read on an be proven wrong.
Even the best of us could use a good boost in confidence every once in a while, because it is the quality in men that women find attractive far above any other.
The more confidence that you display, the more women will desire you, and it’s as simple as that.
Not just that, but it makes you feel good about yourself as well.
I believe that I have developed the most effective and easiest confidence building technique that you will ever learn.
Are you ready to go into confidence overdrive?
We have all heard of psychologist and support groups telling people that they must express their feelings by letting them out, because keeping your feelings to yourself, in other words “bottled up”, will cause them to build up and grow.
This works under the same principles.
However, your goal will be to let your feelings build up on purpose by forcing yourself to keep your experiences with women “bottled up” purposely.
Let me explain…
Whenever you tell someone about your conquests with women by saying something along the lines of: “Remember that girl who gave me her number at the bar last week? I took her home last night” you are subconsciously lowering your own personal view of yourself in your mind.
Not only that, you are indirectly displaying low confidence to the people that you’re talking to.
The act of having to “prove yourself” to other people by making your prowess known is actually a huge display of insecurity, and in the back of our minds we all know that to be true.
You might think that by telling your friends stories about why you’re the man will help you build confidence and raise their opinions of you, but that’s not correct.
Why do we feel the need to tell others that stuff? I’m not entirely sure, but I know that having that urge is completely normal.
What makes all of the difference is giving into it or not, and that is what separates those with real confidence from the rest who are seeking approval from external sources hoping that they’ll ultimately feel better about themselves and raise their social value.
It rarely works out like that, so this is what you should do instead:
Keep your mouth SHUT!
If you never tell anyone about your personal life, you will build confidence faster than you can imagine.
This works as a continuous cycle of confidence escalation because of the “building up” factor, which will continue to raise your confidence level rapidly as long as you always keep everything to yourself.
So if you go on a trip to the Bahamas and end up getting with a super model or movie star, keep your mouth shut.
The rewards in self confidence gains are much more valuable than being able to tell a good story to your friends.
You should start by developing a state of mind in which you could care less about other people knowing your business. You know where you’ve been and what you’ve done, and that is all that matters.
Once you have achieved this you will no longer need to “prove yourself” to anyone, they will already think highly of you simply because of the confidence you display and the rumors they’ve heard about you from others.
The bottom line is that bragging about the women you’ve been with reduces your internal confidence and lowers your external social value, whereas keeping everything as your own little secrets does the exact opposite and you gain confidence and value.
Don’t believe me? I understand, but let me prove it to you:
The next time you get with a new woman, don’t tell ANYONE (not even your best friend) about it.
Wait about a week, then compare how you feel after a week of keeping your conquest bottled up to how you felt before you got that girl.
Your confidence level will have gotten a huge boost because you kept all of the “good stuff” in your own mind – the same place where your confidence comes from.
Give it a shot and you can thank me later.
Even better, go read my Black Book and learn how to can change your entire life for the better.
You don’t need to settle for anything less than what you desire when it comes to women, read the book today and find out how.
The Player’s Black Book