Broke up with your girlfriend
One of the lowest points you can be at in life is when you’ve just broke up with your girlfriend.
Relationships can just fall apart.
It happens to everyone, and it’s never easy letting go or getting over a relationship.
It just sucks.
To be honest, breaking up with a girl always broke my heart.
I would be depressed for months, but after one relationship I was just too fed up with how sad I was.
This led me to find the best method for how to move on after a relationship.
I eventually developed this guide and have been personally thanked by hundreds for helping them get over a girlfriend.
Here is the my advice on recovering from a relationship break up as quickly as possible: broke up with your girlfriend
Breaking up hurts. Ouch!
You broke up with your girlfriend or she just broke up with you.
Either way, it’s over and you’re hurting.
Whether it’s been a day, a month or even a year, every time you think of that girl or something reminds you of her, a large pit forms in your stomach and tears well in your eyes.
The absolute worst feeling in the world.
You’d rather be sick with the flu, kicked in the nuts or punched in the face.
In fact, you’d rather feel anything but what you feel when you think about her.
Putting the past behind you
Who knows why you two broke up and who cares.
All that matters is that it is over.
Yes, you felt good with her and yes, you had all those special cute things that were unique to that relationship and yes, I know you want those times back.
We all have wanted it.
Regardless, the relationship happened in the past and it must stay there.
Time spent dwelling on what you lost is time that could be better spent improving the present and moving forward into the future.
Ditching all of the reminders
I know it is easier said than done.
Even still, you must make the jump.
Delete your ex’s phone number, remove her from Facebook and from instant messaging.
Throw away all mementos.
Anything that might remind you of her or you might use as a crutch to remember her, it must go!
You want it now and you think you need it, but all it will do is cause more harm and become an addiction.
If you’ve been there before you know I’m right.
If you haven’t, then listen to me or you’ll soon learn the hard way.
Nothing is worse than rereading old letters, constantly checking for an internet profile update, or the urge to call the ex when you become needy.
Fight it and make the jump.
You will do it sooner or later, and sooner saves you the pain.
Removing her from your life
After a major breakup you may want to somehow rekindle the fire and start fresh.
If those hopes were realistic, the two of you wouldn’t have broke up with your girlfriend in the first place.
Don’t try and stay friends with her.
In fact, I would recommend never talking to her again. It simply brings back old memories, old feelings, and more pain.
Don’t even go for one more fuck or one more kiss or one more anything.
It is over and it is time to move on.
Any time you would have spent maintaining a friendship could be better spent meeting new people or in the gym or bettering yourself.
Even if you feel insecure, needy or like you will never find happiness again.
Just know that it will happen if you go out and look for it fresh.
Once you take the long scary jump across the abyss, a beautiful oasis is awaiting you and you’ll never look back.
Finding the hidden blessing
Every day gets easier when you totally remove your ex from your life.
Stay positive and keep your eyes open to the beauty in life and the positive things you take for granted.
At everyone’s darkest moment, there is beauty to be found around them.
At everyone’s darkest moment, someone out there dreams of living your life.
It hurts now, but looking back you will know you made the right decision to move on and find greater happiness than you would have ever known.
Leave your comfort zone and you will be rewarded.
Never forget that we all have been there and felt your pain, many times. If you just broke up with your girlfriend, know that you are not alone.
It is never painless, but it doesn’t have to be a prolonged scarring process.
Trust me, there’s no need to have your future relationships go down this same path.
“The New Breed” is the answer to all of your questions and problems in regards to girls and dating.
Have a look at it and make your next relationship count!
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