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~ This is my story ~
From the desk of The Player:
The first impression that most people get from me is that I must have been granted some sort of special "gift" at birth that gave me the ability to be naturally confident and skilled when it comes to picking up women. However, this is FAR from the truth. Allow me to set the record straight...
The early years
I was born and raised in Philadelphia, PA and lived in what you could call a normal household in a decent part of the city. Through my high school years I was a complete failure when it came to getting women. I just couldn't figure them out no matter what I did and was constantly wondering what the "trick" was that other guys seemed to know but was eluding me. I'd see girls writing "I love so-and-so" on their notebooks, but the name was never mine. I'd see groups of girls giggling and looking at the popular guys, while I seemed to be invisible to them. This continued until graduation, which came as a relief to me because to put it lightly, I really needed a fresh start.
After school was over I was ready to go on to college and start a new life, which I saw as an opportunity to leave all of my bad experiences behind me. Of course that didn't happen because the problem wasn't in my old school, it was inside of me. Despite my efforts to network socially and find a girlfriend, college was even more of a challenge than high school was. I quickly became depressed and my grades were slipping. I even stopped trying to talk to girls all together.
What was the point if they wouldn't listen?
My torment ensued for another few months until a beautiful summer's day in July 1999. I'll never forget what happened that day, because it is on that day that my life was completely changed. On that day: I was rejected in the worst way I've ever been, my pride was completely broken, I had a realization about the future, I was reborn and put on the road to becoming the man I am today.
The birth of a seducer
I woke up feeling great. The sun was shining, not a cloud could be seen and people were out and about enjoying themselves. There were girls everywhere. I made the decision that this was going to be the day that I would finally find a girl, even if it was the last thing that I'd do.
I set out on my mission and began talking to every single girl that I could find. The sun retired for the day and I still had not received even one phone number, but I kept trying and figured that I would most likely have more success at night anyway. To increase my chances of finding a hot girl, I decided to go to where there would be a lot of them, which brought me to a nightclub called Egypt near downtown Philadelphia. The place was packed (and it's a huge club, 3-4 separate rooms playing different music.) There were beautiful women smiling, laughing, dancing and drinking everywhere I turned. I thought that if I couldn't get a girl in that place then I must be a lost cause. I tried talking to a few different girls that seemed to be alone but they wanted nothing to do with me. I then got bold and tried talking to a few groups of girls, but not even one from any of the groups expressed any interest in me at all!
It began to get late and the club was preparing to close. I knew that if something magic was going to happen, it had to happen soon. I scanned the building for the target of my final attempt at picking up and laid my eyes on this blond bombshell at the bar waiting for her drink. I approached her and our conversation went something like this (note: this dialog is of course not 100% accurate, but I did my best to remember it word-for-word):
Me - "Hi"
Her - " Hi!" (sounding interested)
At this point I was shocked that she seemed to like me and hesitated
Me - "Uh, are you waiting for your drink?" <-- dumb question
Her - "Yes" (looks away, losing interest)
Me - "That's cool, me too" <-- stupid comment
Her - "Ok" (getting annoyed)
Me - "This club is really packed, huh?" <-- idiotic question
Her - "Uh huh" (loads of sarcasm)
Me - "What's your name?"
Her - "I don't want to tell you"
Me - "Why not?" (starting to realize my failure)
Her - "There's no point, you won't get my number with that weak game anyway."
I walk away.
Her final words still linger in my mind to this day, and if I could somehow find her I would love to thank that girl for being so harsh on me, because the last thing that she said is what put me on the path to becoming who I am today. That very moment was a pivotal turning point in my life.
The molding of a personality
I went home and couldn't sleep. Her voice was stuck in my head, repeating over and over "There's no point, you won't get my number with that weak game anyway." That's when it hit me; she was absolutely right! In one short sentence had told me exactly how to fix the problems that have haunted me for years. All of this time I had been trying to pick up girls, yet had no clue as to the RIGHT way to actually do it. It was like I was attempting to fly an airplane without any training, just pressing random buttons and hoping everything would work out. I never would be able to seduce women until I got some real game, so I had to go and get some!
I stayed up that entire night researching on the internet and browsing various books for everything that I could possibly learn about how to deal with women, and I haven't stopped to this day.
Over the next two years I studied everything I could on seduction: books, movies, web sites, song lyrics, even poetry. I wanted to soak up as much as possible and incorporating it into my own lifestyle. Honestly, I literally acquired and addiction to learning about seduction, and became completely obsessed with it. I tested everything that I found, and through that process realized that some people claiming to know what they are talking about are flat-out liars, while others actually offer solid advice. I began to notice an immense change in the way that women were responding to me, and soon after started getting girlfriends. I started with average looking girls and then quickly moved on to good looking ones, and my next girl was always more intelligent and better looking than the last. I was continually moving forward.
The birth of a mentor
Before I knew it I had become a full blown Don Juan in the flesh, and was able to pick up just about any girl that I wanted. My friends were shocked by my amazing transformation, and they soon began to ask me for advice on how they could become like me. I gladly helped many of them out, and soon found out that I really enjoyed teaching other guys the techniques that I had taught myself, even more so than I enjoyed learning them. Another few months passed and I continued to improve my own skills as well as become better at training other men, until one day my friend Brain sparked the greatest idea I've ever had. Brain said to me, "You are getting so good at teaching this stuff you should open up some sort of school or something."
At first I really didn't care much for what Brain had said because starting any form of business seemed almost impossible in my financial situation at that time. However, later on that day I got to thinking about it and eventually came up with a solution. During college I studied web site design, graphic design, and internet marketing because I wanted to start my own online-based business. The internet was also the best way that I could present my teachings to hundreds of men at the same time, so I put two and two together and started Becomeaplayer.com in October of 2002.
The creation of a web site
Once my web site was up and running, it quickly took off; turning those hundreds of men per day into thousands. Becomeaplayer.com now receives an average of 4,500 unique visitors each day, with roughly 1,300 of those being return visitors, and 160,000+ newsletter subscribers. After some time passed I decided to allow my visitors to submit their own tips to be put on the site, which resulted in so many submissions that I was forced to create a new web site (Players Anonymous) just to host all of this user-submitted content! After some time passed, I realized the need for an interactive community rather than simply a user-driven website, so I replaced Players Anonymous with the PlayersBB forums. The PlayersBB was a huge success, with thousands of registered and active users and more seduction information than any single person could possibly read. In 2008, the PlayersBB was renamed to the Seduction University and started fresh with a clean slate.
I created both of these web sites in order to help all of the men out there that have problems similar to those that I have faced in my own life. That is why they are both totally free sites that anyone can enjoy and learn from regardless of how much money they have. When I first began learning pick up skills on my own, it proved very difficult to get started because the experts were all trying to "sell something", and I didn't have much money.
Everyone deserves a few free resources where they can get started, so I created some.
The writing of a book
Since the launching of Becomeaplayer.com, I've had many requests asking me to write a book containing everything that I know about picking up women from A to Z. What these readers did not know is that I had already been secretly working on "The Player's Black Book" while I was maintaining the website. I continued to post great tips and techniques on Becomeaplayer.com, but I kept stashing the "cream of the crop" away for my book. I told myself that if I were going to actually sell a product, that I had to do it right, and would not release the Black Book until it was perfected.
After over two years of production, the book is finally finished, and just a few clicks away from you!
Which brings this story up to the present day, the day that YOU will never forget because today is the day that will change your life forever. This is where my story ends and yours begins, the choice that you make right now will determine the rest.
If you are ready to take the next step Click Here To Order.
Enjoy!
The Player
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