Balancing Nice Guy & Jerk
Never act submissive because you want to be the “Nice Guy”. In the real world (outside of Hollywood) nice guys don’t ever get the girls, so stand up for yourself and don’t get used.
However, don’t become the “Jerk” either, the goal is to be likable while also showing strength by always expressing yourself and your opinions.
The key to having a well-rounded character is having a good balance of all things.
Never be afraid to say no to a woman simply because you believe that by doing so her opinion of you will decrease because it is actually the opposite.
If you show her that you are a real man who will stand his ground and not be forced to do stuff that you don’t want to do or agree with things that you truly don’t agree with, her attraction levels for you will increase.
Strong men like that are desirable to women.
On the other hand, pushy men who try to force their own opinions onto others or who put down people in order to make themselves feel better (Jerks), are a perfect example of this concept being taken way too far.
In order to be successful, you need to land right in the middle and balance your personality out.
Don’t be a wussy little nice guy who gives in to everything that she requests, but also don’t become a pushy jerk who tries to boss her around and throw a tantrum when you don’t get your way.[php snippet=1]