Have you ever had a great time chatting with a date, just to have her pull away when you went in for the kiss?
Do women regularly see you as more of a friend, than a lover?
Have you heard the dreaded, “Let’s just be friends?
Do you have trouble with building intimacy with others?
If you answered yes for any or all of the above questions than you are normal, all men at some point have difficulties with any or all of the above.
Why is this?
Well on the way to building rapport men stray away from contact as to not scare their prey off, what they accomplish is the opposite!
Touch is extremely important, humans from an early age exhibit the need for physical contact. Studies from orphanages show that without contact babies will lose weight, get sick, and some even died from a lack of personal contact. Children even will naturally seek out close contact and if they don’t it signifies a major problem. Healthy families have a great deal of closeness with hugs and kisses, which fosters a positive loving outlook on life.
Personal relationships that go bad have an ever-decreasing amount of contact, which results in a break-up, the same is true at the beginning of a relationship where not enough contact is established. It has also been clinically proven that when we are touched, hormones are released (I will not bore you with the scientific terms, just know that the affect is even more profound on women than it is for men). Even as adults we need, loving touch to function properly, and to be healthy or else we start to exhibit mental health traumas.
Here is an important fact for all you prostars: With a consistent elevation in the frequency and intimacy of the contact, sexual arousal will be reached in women.
What does that mean?
If you start with light grazing sensations slowly and work your way up into touch that is more intimate, with more frequent touches as well as intensity it will lead to arousal, which is why women love foreplay. This crescendo of touch leads to arousal, foreplay, intercourse, and culminates in climax. Most men rush through the foreplay and get straight into the hardcore action, they act similarly at the beginning of a relationship by not creating comfort through touch before getting intimate with a kiss. Now no man would ever start their beloved car without engine oil to lubricate the motor, yet they try to cold start women all the time.
Truth is that men need sex to be intimate and women need to be intimate to have sex, can you see how these two opposites clash.
If that is the case you might think, “So how do I get intimacy with women?”
The answer is through premeditated touch. It won’t feel comfortable for you at first because it is not in your nature, but it is a requirement from women and if you can’t establish that comfort zone through touch you will fail in every attempt to escalate with her.
There is a natural progression of intimacy for women that we will teach you, and if you skip a step, it will result in failure. Women get an uneasy feeling every time a man jumps ahead of the natural progression that they require.
It is an easy mistake to make since men are sociologically programmed opposite to women.
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Do you know how to touch her so that you don’t come across like a freak?
Do you know what not to ask so you don’t sound creepy?
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