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Can You Ever Trust A Woman?
by Joseph Matthews
Today I want to talk about a touchy subject.
The subject of TRUST.
Namely: Should you ever trust what a woman
tells you?
Now, we all know that people lie. Both men
and women do it. I'm willing to bet you've
told a lie at some time in your life too.
So everyone lies. Yet, we are inclined to
trust people, aren't we? So lying can't be
a trust killer (at least, if the lie is a small
one anyway).
But despite that, know this one simple fact:
WOMEN WILL LIE TO YOU!!!!
Now, obviously I can't get into all the lies
that a woman will tell you in this little email.
But I can focus on one certain aspect of
female untruthfulness that will relate
directly to you and your success with women.
And the tragedy about this particular field
of fibbing is that WOMEN DON'T KNOW THEY'RE
LYING WHEN THEY DO IT!
Strange, but true.
What I'm talking about here is when a woman
tells you what she finds attractive in a man.
We've all been there before. There's a girl
we like, and we try to do our homework to find
out what she likes in a guy. Inevitably,
we hear things like:
-"I like tall guys."
-"I like guys with blond hair."
-"I like guys with big muscles."
-"I like confident guys."
The list goes on, and on, and on...
Yet, no matter what, we will always
see the exact same woman who just
told us what she likes in guys go
for a man who is THE EXACT OPPOSITE
OF WHAT SHE TOLD YOU SHE FINDS
ATTRACTIVE.
And we're left scratching our heads,
wondering why she'd go for a guy who
isn't anything remotely like the kind
of guy she described to us.
The answer is because: THEY LIED!
But the thing to remember is, she didn't
KNOW she was lying when she said it!
Confused yet?
Let me elaborate.
See, it's true that women are attracted
to the qualities they list. Let's take
height for instance. Let's say a woman
tells you she finds tall men attractive,
and you feel like she'd never go for you
because you're 5"2 on a good day.
Next thing you know, you see her dating
a guy who makes "mini-me" look like King
Kong, and you get upset because you took
yourself out of the game based on something
she told you she liked!
But the truth is, it's not that she likes
guys who are physically tall. It's that
she likes the way she feels when she's
WITH a guy who's physically tall.
Maybe her father is a tall man and tall
men make her feel safe. Who knows why
it's the case? But she gravitates to
the tall men because instinctively, that's
who she associates the feeling of
safety with.
Now, does that mean she flat out lied when
she said she liked tall guys?
No.
Does that mean you should trust her when she
says "I only like tall guys?"
Definitely NOT!
If you learn one thing from these newsletters
I send to you, never, ever, ever, EVER take
what a woman says about what she finds
attractive seriously.
Always look at what lies beneath her words
and find the meaning behind them.
That will let you know what she REALLY
responds to!
So let's say there's a girl you like who
says she only likes guys with long hair,
and you happen to be balding.
Now, does this mean if you get a long mane
of golden locks stapled to your head, you
can get with this girl?
Or is she telling you that she values
youthfulness and wildness in a man?
Because you'd have a much better chance of
being fun and outrageous with a girl like
that than you would by dunking your head in
rogaine every day.
There are exceptions to every rule, and
you need to be confident and aware of
yourself and what kind of woman you want
if you want to really have some great
success in love.
One way you can start this is by checking
out my book "The Art Of Approaching."
No other manual out there will help give
you the tactics you need to focus on your
goals and achieve the type of success with
women you really want.
If you haven't read my book already, what
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