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One of the most effective ways I've found
for triggering attraction in women, emotionally
compelling them to want and reach and chase for
more of you, is using what I call "Tension Loops."
The best part of using Tension Loops is that
they generate heaps of attraction in women
regardless of your looks, social status, or
bank account.
A Tension Loop is when you do something to
create unresolved emotional tension inside a
woman, increase it, release it by bringing
closure to it, and then spark it all over
again.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep
women enraptured in their fictitious dramas
for months - sometimes years!
The structure is always the same. The soap
starts off with some form of conflict or
drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension.
Emotional tension increases up until the point
of the climax. The tension, then, is released
by bringing some resolution to the conflict or
drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking
the tension all over again, compelling women to
tune in for next week's show.
Mastering the Tension Loop gives you the kind
of power over women that, at first, might scare
you. But if you're thinking that this is what
I wanted to share with you, you're wrong.
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special
type of Tension Loop I call "Push-Pull."
If you aren't comfortable with the having the
power to generate attraction inside the women
you desire regardless of them finding you
physically appealing, you might want to stop
reading now!
What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind shit.
We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have
to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of
Push-Pull. Every ladies’ man I've ever met
uses some form of Push-Pull.
Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a
woman away from you and, then, emotionally
pull her back in. Each Push creates an
emotional space for each Pull.
To get a feel for what I'm talkin' about,
think, for example, of your favorite junk food.
What if you went on a strict diet for several
weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to
that urge to chow down on your favorite food?
What would it be like to finally give in to
your urge and indulge?
I'm willing to bet it would be more intense
than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet,
yes?
Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your
favorite food, a person yanking it away from
you.
Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your
desire for the food would grow exponentially.
Many women are natural Push-Pull artists.
Over the years I've heard dozens of stories
from hapless men about women using Push-Pull
to pick them up by the scruff of their
proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with
back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into
the ground.
My all time favorite story is the one about
the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and
then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids
by telling him, "You're the best lover I've
ever had."
Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem
crushing turn for the worse when she
undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're
the fourth best lover I've ever had."
The poor guy's confidence goes belly up as he
struggles to move up to the number three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms
without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is
to make it playful and funny. Your intention
should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is
only to mess with her a bit.
Do this and women will find you charming
and attractive.
Here's an example of this I've used probably
over a thousand times. At some point while
interacting with a woman I might take her
hand and praise, "You have the most amazing
smile I've seen tonight... It makes me feel
so happy inside!"
She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!"
Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand
and say, "You know what: actually there were
four other girls with really amazing smiles
tonight as well. Out of them, you have the
fourth best smile. I'm going to call you
number four." And then I'll push away her
hand.
More often than not, women demand, "Nooo! I
want to be number one!"
I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll
promote you to number three for being
feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at
all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a
psychologically damaged woman who doesn't
think this is cute. She is the exception and
not the rule. My advice: run Forrest run).
Most women find this funny, charming, and
playful. More importantly, it generates
attraction: the emotion of wanting and
reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push-Pull is the crème de la crème of
attraction tools.
Master Push-Pull and you'll leave women
no choice but to feel attraction toward
you... even if they're repulsed by your
physical appearance.
Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm
only scratching the surface of Push-Pull.
In my ebook you'll learn six
types of Push-Pull: Intentional Undermining,
Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster,
Revealing & Concealing, and
Good Cop/ Bad Cop.
My course is the only place on the planet
where you'll learn about Push-Pull.
But this only scratches the surface of what
you’ll learn inside my ebook.
It's a complete education on attracting women,
giving you the tools to transform yourself
into the kind of man women feel uncontrollably
attracted to.
Just think what it will be like to finally
have the skills and confidence to plop your
butt in the driver's seat while interacting
with women, giving you the power and choice to
take your interactions with them in the
direction you want.
Start getting this area of your life taken
care of right now by getting your hands on
a copy of my ebook right now by clicking here.
You be glad you did.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"
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