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There is one critical mistake that most
guys make when they try to get a date with a woman. Do
you make this mistake too?
This is a short article, so you can easily read the whole
thing right now.
As I was saying, most guys are guilty of committing
this one horrible dating crime that drives women away
faster than a rancid chili fart!
Here's what they do... They try to act like EVERY other
guy out there! They assume that if they act like an
average, plain old guy, then he won't display any
unusual or unattractive personality traits that will
repel her, and make her not want to date him.
What they don't realize is that by acting like
"everyone else", they ARE repelling her. Hey look, if
she's single, then she obviously didn't LIKE those
other guys, and she's looking for someone unique and
different. Someone like YOU!
You might be wondering to yourself, "How can I be
different in a way that's attractive? I only know how
to be myself."
Well, you're in luck, because here's my top 3 ways for
doing just that.
#1 - DON'T CATER TO HER NEEDS ALL THE TIME
That might sound like it would drive her away, but it
won't. She's not looking for a maid or a servant, she's
looking for a relationship partner that she can call
her equal.
She wants someone who will add value to her life, not
run errands for her. So stop trying to gain favor with
women by doing favors for them, or making things too
easy. Hey look, if she doesn't have to work AT ALL in
order to get you as a boyfriend, then you are NO
challenge to her, and she'll get bored and move onto
someone else.
Bottom line... It's not your job to kiss her ass in
order to get her to like you.
#2 - MAKE FUN OF HER IN A FLIRTY WAY
When I first started studying dating and seduction, I
was truly shocked when I discovered that this actually
works. And not only does it work a little bit... but it
has an almost magical power to make women attracted to
you (if you do it right).
All you need to do is make little jokes when she does
something dumb, or screws up. When a woman can't seem
to do something simple (like getting her keychain out
of her purse), I usually say something like, "What's
the matter, too many moving parts?".
It's a wiseass comment that implies that she's a little
dumb, but I say it with a smirk on my face, and in a
flirty tone of voice. This really turns up her
attraction for you, trust me. Just don't go too far,
and say something obnoxious or mean. THAT doesn't turn
women on.
#3 - EXPECT HER TO HOLD UP HER END OF THE RELATIONSHIP
Whether your friends with a woman, or you're dating
her, she needs to hold up her end of things. Most guys
make the mistake of thinking that dating is like a
contest.
They think that they are supposed to just kiss her ass
long enough for her to agree to sleep with them. Listen
to me carefully...
THAT DOES NOT WORK!
In order for her to respect you as an equal, you have
to expect to be treated as one. That doesn't mean you
say it outright, but you demonstrate it through your
behavior and the way your treat her.
FOR EXAMPLE: If she shows up late more than once, you
need to call her on it. Just tell her that being on
time is one of the ways that you show people that you
respect and care about them, so when people are always
late for you, you usually stop spending time with them.
This will send the message to her loud and clear that
she needs to be on her best behavior with you, and
she'll respect you for it. No woman wants to spend time
with a spineless jellyfish of a man, so hold your
ground.
IN CONCLUSION
Remember, if you want to be different than every other
guy she's met recently, three great ways to do that
are:
1 - Don't cater to her needs or kiss her ass.
2 - Make fun of her in a fun, flirty way.
3 - Expect her to hold up her end of the relationship.
Now that you understand this, it's time for you to
learn some of my more powerful dating secrets. Things
like:
* How to ask a woman out in a way that REALLY gets her
attention.
* How to get women to pick YOU UP!
* How to talk to women and start conversations.
* How to please her sexually in a way that will make
her brag to her friends about you.
* And so much more.
You can gain instant access to these secrets, and a lot
more by visiting this URL right now:
http://www.SevenMagicWords.com
Go ahead and check it out right now, while it's fresh
in your mind. And I'll see you next week with another
killer dating tip.
Your Friend,
Wayne Ross
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