In order for any man to pick up a high quality woman, a certain series of events must occur. The particular details of these events may vary from girl to girl, which is natural, but in every case the same “switches” must be flipped if attraction is to commence.
By Chance
It's quite ironic how many AFC men have grown accustomed to referring to their success with women as “getting lucky”, because that couldn't be more true. You see, regardless of the level of game that a man has, occasionally he will say and do all of the right things, getting laid as a result. He will simply flip all of the right switches by chance, and then “get lucky”.
Every dog has it's day.
Thus goes the story of the dating life of an AFC. He will have many failures and few successes, but when he is successful he will attempt to hold on to that woman to the best of his ability, knowing that he will have to wait for the next “blue moon” to get another one. The AFC has no power to be selective and very few options, which is not a desirable lifestyle, but it is all he has known so it is commonly accepted.
Those of us who have already broken free from our AFC shackles no longer settle for that type of slow, uneventful dating life, and have learned that opportunities will present themselves much more frequently when you seek them out, rather then sit around waiting for them. We have also honed our skills, so when we are in a situation in which our actions will determine the outcome we can effectively flip all of the right switches purposely, every time.
The Frame
Dating is called a “game” for a reason, and a man's ability to pick up women is referred to as his “game” to further push that idea. If you want to be successful in the field, you need to learn how to put yourself into a frame of mind in which you no longer feel as if you are trying to get some ass, but rather playing a game in which the result of winning will be getting some ass.
I'm not telling you to pretend as if your entire dating life is a game, I'm trying to show you that your entire dating life actually IS a game, no different than Super Mario or Madden '07. Just like with any other game, you will get better at it the more you play and gain experience, but you won't get any better by watching someone else play. If you lose, you can simply start over (like pressing the reset button) and try again. It sucks when you fail, but with an unlimited amount of attempts it's only a matter of time before you figure out a working strategy, then you can repeat that method as much as you like from then on.
The Game Frame is a state of mind in which you fully understand that dating is merely a game that should be fun to play, and that you are completely comfortable with that. Once you have the Game frame of mind, the limits are literally endless to what you can achieve in terms of women:
No longer will you be afraid to approach because you will know for a fact that rejection doesn't mean anything at all and is the equivalent to losing a game of basketball to one of your friends.
No longer will you worry about what a woman will talk about with her friends behind your back because you will know that anything she could possibly say will do nothing more than put you into her friend's minds, only increasing the chances of you scoring with them as well.
No longer will you display low value and neediness by calling a woman or texting her multiple times each day, because you will know that she will call you eventually anyway, and you will then remain in a position of power.
The list goes on.
Stop taking everything so seriously and start playing the GAME, only then will you begin to see results.
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