It is relatively hard to know exactly what to wear to look as attractive as possible with so many choices out there, and all of the music artists, actors, etc. which cload your mind by making you believe you should copy what they wear, while in reality they are the only people who can pull off wearing such flashy set-ups without looking stupid. So after alot of thought, research, and trial and error, I think I've whipped up the perfect recipe to help you spark the ladies' interest by wearing the right kind of gear. Let's start with the most important and work our way up...
The Kicks
Your shoes are very important because women tend to notice what is on a man's feet rather quickly, and some may judge you based on what they observe. With that in mind, always take care of your shoes by cleaning them regularly, and when they start looking a little old it's time to hit the mall. I like to wear sneakers almost all of the time, and boots during the winter.
If you can not afford multiple pairs of shoes, try to stay away from black sneakers, or any other color for that matter. Those new baby blue sneakers may look cool on the shelf, but they will look stupid on your feet, and you probably only have one or two outfits they will go with. However, if you can afford more than one new pair of shoes at a time then it is important to keep your wardrobe in mind when shopping for shoes... only buy shoes that will look good with at least one of your best outfits.
Unless your running a marathon or just signed your deal with an NBA team, then say no to anything with bubbles, strange designs, pumps, or shiny/hologram materials. When it comes to white sneakers, ALWAYS buy classics, and I mean all white classics. Make sure there are no other colors on your white sneakers, not even a little logo, or they will not look good with your nicer clothes.
The recommended type of white classics are made by many well known companys, the best being K-Swiss and Reebok. I just picked up the new K-Swiss classics, which are some of the best I've ever had. However, sometimes sneakers will just not cut it, so you will have to go with dress shoes (black not brown). When buying a pair of dress shoes don't try to go too dressy. For instance, stay away from the really shiny ones with those little bows on the top. Wearing shoes like those will make you appear to be not very approachable, and besides, your trying to pick up women, not get a job :)
The Pants/Shorts
There are only three options when it comes to pants: jeans, dress pants, and khakis. If you want to be a player, you will never be caught in public wearing sweat pants, wind pants, or anything else sporty or extremely comfortable. When buying pants, never go for anything with too many pockets. Always be aware of the color of the stiching on your pants (mostly with jeans), because that is what you will want to match your shirt with. For example, blue stiching = blue shirt, beige stiching = beige shirt, grey stiching = grey shirt.
All colors and shades of jeans, pants, and khakis seem to work fine, depending on the shirt you match with them. I've found that the new style of jeans that come pre-faded are particularly popular right now, so make sure you grab a pair before they go out of style. Don't buy pants that are too baggy or too tight, in between will work just fine, otherwise you'll look like you either can't shop, are wearing hand-me-downs, or are stuck in your early teens.
The Shirt
This is too large of a subject for me to properly advise you in any particular way, so I'll just offer some suggestions. If you are hanging around, going to the store, or engaging in any other every-day activities... just wear a T-Shirt. I've pulled a ton of women while wearing T-Shirts, they make you appear to be VERY approachable... so don't underestimate them.
On the other hand, if you are going on a date, to a club or bar, or engaging in any other night-life type of activites... always wear shirts with collars. It does not matter if they button all the way down or if they are polo shirts, as long as the collar is there. I personally prefer shirts that button all the way down, over top of a white tee, with the top two buttons unbuttoned. That's just my style, copy it or not, but it's very effective.
Leave the gym clothes at the gym! I don't care if you've got bicepts the size of watermelons, you do NOT look attractive wearing a wife beater everywhere you go. Think about it like this: you are presented with two girls that are identical twins, in which the only difference is that one of them is wearing a super short skirt and tiny top, while the other is wearing a regular, slightly sexy dress. If you were asked which one you want to have sex with, you would opt for the one with her ass cheeks hanging out. However, if you were asked which one you want to start a relationship with, you would choose the other. Women have that state of mind ALL THE TIME. They are looking for a man to start a relationship with, not a man to simply have sex with. So if the scenario was the other way around, and you were the twin with a mustle shirt on, then you would have a big L on your forhead, catch my drift?
Jewelry
Jewelry is always a plus, but don't take it too far. If you look like Mr. T than I suggest you make a trip to the pawn shop before you get robbed or laughed at. I've found that medium sized diamond stud earrings (both ears) along with a nice watch to be a sufficient and powerful addition to any player's arsenal. The type of watch I recommend is a Movado, because women seem to find them particularly attractive and they display wealth. However, they tend to be pretty pricey ($800-2000), but you can probably pick up a nice one for under $400 on E-Bay.
The Socks
Buying socks is kind of like playing limbo, the lowest is the winner. Always get ankle socks, simply because that is what's cool right now, and anything longer is not. Enough Said.
Down under
Boxers or nothing... unless you don't want to give your best friend any room to grow. Tighty whiteys can not be found in any real players wardrobe, and that's the bottom line.
Up on top
Unless you get a horrible haircut, don't put anything on your head if you are going on a date or out to a club. If you are lounging or going shopping, anything is fair game.
One more thing
Try to stay away from any type of clothing with large logos or writing. If you buy higher-end clothes then you won't have to worry about this, because when was the last time you saw Armani, Gucci, or even Claiborne written in big bold letters across a shirt? Why would you want to be a walking Nike advertisement anyway? If you don't think you can afford high-end designer clothes your wrong, you'll be surprised at what you'll find at Marshalls or TJ Maxx. Even the higher-end hip hop clothing rarely display their logo in big bold print in this day and age... it is more about colors, and they know that.
One more thing (again)
Always iron your clothes before going out, it will make all of the difference. If wearing khakis or dress pants make sure you don't forget to make some creases in the front and back for that "brand new" look!
This article was written by The Player, author of the ground breaking seduction guide The Player's Black Book.
The Player
http://www.playersblackbook.com
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