It's no secret that women are a mystery. What makes them tick? How does a guy grab the attention of a girl he's interested in? Why is talking to a girl for the first time so difficult? If you're like most men, you've probably asked yourself these questions more than once.
Chances are you're reading this article because you're attracted to a particular girl (or two), and you want to escalate things to a physical level. Your old tricks of seduction failed, and you want to know what works. You know that you need to set yourself apart from every other guy who's tried hitting on her, but you have no idea how to do that.
Fortunately, you've come to the right source.
While there's only one game of love, there are several ways of playing, and one of these techniques is called sexual attraction. In short, it's a connection between two people.
You may have heard someone say they "hit it off" or "had great chemistry" with a significant other. What they were really saying was that the couple is experiencing sexual attraction. Most guys fail at seduction by going straight for the kill, completely bypassing that special connection that needs to be built. As a result, the women reject them.
If you can manage to make a woman feel comfort in your presence, she'll naturally gravitate towards you, and in this article, you'll learn how to do just that. Continue reading to learn four easy tricks to create chemistry and rapport with the opposite sex.
Step #1 - Relax
Before you even hit the social scene, take a deep breath and relax. Approach the situation as a fun-filled night meeting others, and nothing more. Of course you would welcome the chance to hook up, but is it really going to kill you if you don't?
Take in your surroundings. Enjoy the conversation with your buddies. Grab a couple of drinks, and listen to the music. You're only young once, so enjoy this time in your life while it lasts. How you feel on the inside will show on the outside, so make sure people see nothing but a calm, cool, and collected guy.
It doesn't get much sexier than that.
Step #2 - Stay positive
People respond directly to the energy that you emit, so make sure it's a positive energy. Think about some of the negative people in your life. How do you feel when they come at you frowning and complaining? If I were to guess, I'd say they make you want to run as fast as your legs can carry you.
Never forget that women are the more emotional of the two sexes, and they want a man who's going to make them forget about their worries. By remaining upbeat, energetic, and exciting, you'll do just that. Besides attracting the opposite sex, having a good attitude is good for your social life in general.
You'll be the guy that everyone likes.
Step #3 - Have confidence
It's been said that nothing is sexier than confidence, and believe it or not, this is true. Everyone has witnessed the spectacle of "that guy." He's the one who's fat, bald, and looks like he got dressed in the dark, but for some reason, women flock to him. His secret is simple...he's confident.
In the animal kingdom, this guy would be regarded as the alpha male. He knows his worth, and he believes it with his whole heart. As a result, people (especially women) flock to him. You can emit this same presence by knowing your strengths, speaking up when you have something to say, and holding your head high.
A little confidence can take you very far.
Step #4 - Use your energy
As I said earlier, you can emit both positive and negative energy, but when dealing with women, you must remain positive. Smile, crack jokes, and don't take life too seriously. As a result, women will be magnetically drawn to you.
On this same note, if you're in a terrible mood that you just can't shake, don't go out. If you do hit the social scene, you shouldn't approach women until you fix your disposition. Try focusing on what's going right in your life, and ditch any negative thoughts before trying to seduce.
Never forget that emotions are contagious.
Creating sexual attraction is a skill that requires much practice, but put these four tips to use, and you'll master the art of seduction in no time. Before long, it'll become second nature to you, and you'll be collecting more phone numbers than you can handle.
Steve Scott
Author of Flirt Mastery
The "Flirt Mastery" system contains 283 pages of proven techniques for building sexual tension EVERY time you talk to women. Created from a PROVEN formula, this guide was specifically created to help whenever you want to ATTRACT a woman. Check it out!
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