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You might find this unbelievable... but
did you know that there are people who are terrified of
going through a drive through at a fast food place.
For some reason, they are scared of the whole "talking
speaker" thing. There's so many phobias these days, and
this is yet another one of them.
Now, let me ask YOU something. What are you afraid of
when it comes to meeting women?
If you're like most men, you're afraid that she's not
going to like you, and now you're just standing there
after you made yourself vulnerable... feeling like a
failure. Perfectly understandable.
One of the ways to help with fears is to take baby
steps in the direction of the fear itself. That's
right, walk TOWARDS it, instead of running away from
it... or hiding from it altogether.
With regards to the drive-thru phobia, maybe you could
start by just taking a drive by it a few times a day.
Then, you could go to the restaurant before it opens in
the morning, and just drive your car through the drive-
thru a few times... when you know that no one is there
to say anything.
You following me here?
So here's what you can do to handle rejection in
advance. Get one of your friends who you can trust to
take this exercise seriously. If it's a female friend,
all the better... but it doesn't have to be.
Practice rejecting each other in different ways 10
times per day. First you can walk up to your friend,
and give an opening line.
At first, have them just respond from a neutral
position. Then have them respond like they are annoyed.
And then try having them simply give you a dirty look.
Don't spend TOO much time on just the negative though.
Otherwise you'll begin to expect it when you approach a
woman, and that won't motivate you.
Then, have your friend respond positively when you
approach, and then talk with you for a minute. Then,
when you ask for their phone number, have them give you
an excuse as to why they can't.
Are you getting the idea here? Come up with 10
different ways to rehearse rejection. First get
yourself comfortable with it, so that you no longer
feel that sting in your body when they say no.
Then, practice your "Plan B" tactics. For example:
Let's say you approach the person, and they chat with
you for a minute. Then they say, "Okay well I have to
get back to my friends."
What are you going to do? Well at first you can say,
"Oh okay", but don't do that for long. It's a lousy way
of responding.
Instead, you could say, "Okay cool. Actually my friends
are waiting for me too. Call me sometime (hand her your
number)."
You see , we're trying to create "defaults"
that you can rely on when a girl rejects you. Most
girls aren't ready to handle someone who comes back at
them after she rejects them.
If you do it in a cool, casual way that says, "Hey,
I've got something that you want, and I see that you
almost made the mistake of turning it down. You don't
really wanna do that, so I'll give you one more chance
to have me."
Now that's power!
And if you want to learn how to have unbelievable power
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Warmly,
Wayne Ross
Author: Seven Magic Words
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