Joseph Matthews here. I want to share a story with you all that I
thought was interesting.
Friday night, I was out with a friend of mine clubbing. As we were
walking from one club to another, we saw two women walking together
in front of us.
These women were HOT!
So hot, in fact, that every guy they passed by on the sidewalk
tried to talk to them. How did they try this? By saying things like:
"Hey, where you going?"
"Damn, you fine!"
"Hey, come back here, baby!"
Needless to say, these girls were completely ignoring each and
every guy who talked to them.
It's a harsh reality that most girls who are as hot as these two
were get approached by men ALL THE TIME, and have heard every
stupid line in the book. In fact, they get approached so much,
that they don't even respond anymore. They're just focused on
getting to where they're going.
So of course, upon seeing this, I thought to myself "How would I
approach these girls?"
The answer was pretty self-evident. In fact, it was staring me
right in the face!
The situation was dictating what I should say to them.
"Oh my god! Every single guy is trying to pick you guys up! How
annoying is that? You guys need to hire BODYGUARDS just to keep
all these horny waldos at bay!"
This is an example of a SITUATIONAL OPENER.
Situational Openers can be the best way to meet a woman if they are
done right. This is because this type of Opener is UNIQUE to the
interaction you are having with the woman.
Not only that, but it shows you guys have a common understanding of
the reality you are mutually experiencing. And that, my friends,
creates a connection between the two of you.
It's like knowing the punchline to a joke most others have no clue
about.
And more importantly, this is one of my most favorite kind of
situational opener, namely, the "Crash and Burn" opener.
This is a situational opener where you capitalize on other men's
failures, while conveying the illusion that you are different from
the other guys and are not looking to get into the woman's pants
(even though the truth may be VASTLY different from that which you
are conveying).
For example, anytime you are in a situation where there are women
you want to approach, and you see a guy go up to them and try to
hit on them, this gives you the chance to use the "Crash and Burn"
opener.
Simply walk up to the girl, and comment on what the other guy did
wrong.
Saying things like:
"So, how'd he do?"
or
"Did it hurt? He was hitting on you pretty hard. Did it hurt?"
Or anything along those lines will open up your target for
conversation. These types of "Crash and Burn" openers work great
in high stimulus environments where girls are being hit on (like
bars and clubs, for example).
So next time you see some poor schmoe strike out, be sure to take
the opportunity to capitalize on it!
You can find out more about the "Crash and Burn" Opener, along with
other Situational Openers in my ebook, "The Art of Approaching:
How to meet ANY Woman, ANY Time, ANY Where you may be."
You can download the ebook right now at:
The Art Of Approaching
Until next time!
Your friend,
Joseph Matthews
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