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What To Do If Your Nervous With Women
by Matthew Whiting
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For many men approaching women can be very nerve wracking. And
since you purchased this course, you are probably no different.
This is normal. Many men have a fear of rejection when it comes to
approaching women. Men hate to lose, and being rejected feels like
losing. And the idea of being rejected by a woman can be kind of
scary.
Unfortunately, this fear of rejection could be holding you back
from meeting the right person. Another disadvantage to this fear is
that you are giving the woman all the power, and essentially making
yourself appear weak. And it certainly isn't doing your self esteem
and overall well-being any good at all.
You have to learn that rejection is just part of the dating game.
If you want to succeed, you will have to realize that you're going
to face some rejection somewhere along the way.
How can you overcome this fear?
First, you need to change your mindset to approaching women. It is
important that you approach women regularly, whether they are
good-looking or not. And don't approach just them because you want
to seduce them.
>From talking to many women, I've discovered that they want to be
approached. And even if they aren't interested in the guy that
approached them, they are usually flattered that they were noticed.
They even brag to their friends on the phone. You should feel good
about that. It helps you become less nervous about talking to them.
The mindset I like to adopt when I approach a woman is that women
want to be approached by men and I am giving them a gift by
approaching them. If nothing else, by talking to them in a
respectful, confident way, I am helping improve their self esteem.
You'll find it much easier to reduce fear of rejection when you
keep in mind that approaching women is a good deed you are doing
for them.
Interacting with women should be about learning: getting to know a
new person, deciding if you like her, seeing if she likes you,
finding out if you get along. Whatever the outcome, it's okay
because it was all about learning.
That's the key to releasing the fear. If she doesn't like you, you
didn't fail. You succeeded at learning that the two of you did not
hit it off. When you look at it this way, it's not so scary
anymore.
I know it sounds simple, but if you practice it you'll see that it
works.
The next thing you need to do is make a habit of approaching women.
Don't set out with any goal other than to talk. Don't worry about
getting her number or asking her out; simply have a conversation.
See what you learn from it.
Make your goal to approach 1 woman the first night. Then 3 women
the next night, and 4 women after that.
By the time you have approached 8 women, you will have noticed
something. It gets easier.
You'll also notice that you'll have great conversations with some
of these women. That alone will give you with more confidence about
yourself than you had before you started.
Once you have approached 8 women, and have had a couple of
conversations with them, you are over the hard part. After that,
it's all easy sailing.
I'm not saying you won't get nervous approaching women, but you'll
probably find that you are only really nervous before you approach
the first woman on any given night.
You'll come to realize that it really is a ratio thing. Many women
want to be approached and have a chat, but some don't. That's just
the way it is.
The good thing is that even if you don't get her phone number, the
next time you see her, you are now familiar to her, so she'll be
more willing to trust you and talk to you.
You'll become good friends with some women, and chances are they'll
wind up introducing you to their hot friends. That makes the whole
female seduction strategy easier. You have instant credibility when
you are introduced to them by their friend.
The final thing you need to be aware of is this: are there things
about yourself that you are be worried about? For instance, you may
be worried about approaching women because you are bald, or fat, or
maybe you are a lot older than they are.
If you do, then you'll be really interested to hear what I have to
say in the next newsletter: why you have a great chance with good
looking women. Until then!
Matthew Whiting is a professional writer specializing in dating and
relationship advice. He has extensive experience in training men
to maximize their seduction potential and ability to interact with
women successfully. He is considered by many to be an expert in
his field with his frank and forthright approach. He is best known
for his work in "How to Be Irresistible to Women," which is part of
the 000Relationships network.
His product is a compilation of 7 life-changing e-books, a complete
16-part audio course, and a host of exclusive Members Articles. The
"How to Be Irresistible to Women" package offers single men a
dynamic and comprehensive tool-kit to attract women and establish
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