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You know what? When you're single, meeting women can be a real
chore.
Seriously, it almost gets to the level of being a "full time job."
Going out night after night, going to club after club, bar after
bar, facing rejection after rejection... it's hard to do.
And because it's hard, it can get frustrating.
People can sense that frustration on a man. Most men can, and
women DEFINITELY can.
One thing to remember is that you project your attitude to the
world at all times. If you look like you're angry and frustrated
and bored, people aren't gonna want to be around you because you'll
drag them down into your mood.
But if you go out with ulterior motives to meeting women, like
going to a club because there's a band there you want to see, etc.,
you put yourself in a position where you can enjoy yourself whether
you meet women or not.
Now, we all know it's hard to project that "happy-go-lucky"
attitude all the time. And it's especially hard to do it at will.
That's why, if you're doing things you enjoy, you don't have to
worry about WORKING to feel good, because it'll come naturally.
And you'll be able to carry those feelings with you wherever you go.
Remember this: A guy who's having fun is INFINANTLY more
attractive than one who isn't.
That is why the "fun factor" is very important to meeting them!
See, women are empathetic creatures by nature, they are more in
tune with their emotions and the emotions of people around them.
When you're having fun and projecting that energy, the women around
you will pick up on it and be drawn to you because it's a
pleasurable energy, as opposed to being frustrated and nervous,
which almost always pushes others away from you.
So remember to do things YOU like and have fun. Eventually, the
women will come around.
But what about the times you simply aren't able to have fun? What
then? Should you just count out women all together?
Of course not.
Being able to turn emotions and feelings on and off is what is
commonly referred to as "State Control." Actors in movies and TV
are very adept at this, which is probably why they're so
successful. They can control what they feel and how they interact
with others AT WILL.
Imagine what it would be like to instantly "turn on" those feelings
of fun, excitement, and sexuality. For a moment, imagine how women
will react to you when they feel your energy while experiencing
those states.
Can you imagine that this is a valuable skill to have?
State Control all comes down to how well you know yourself and are
able to BE AWARE of what you're feeling at all times. And this
comes down to your "inner game," which encompases things like
confidence and beliefs.
Most guys have a lot of trouble with their inner game. They feel
stuck, helpless, afraid... and all those emotions lead to the same
frustrations that drive women away from you when you're not having
fun.
So what's a guy to do if you happen to be one of the unlucky ones
that's "stuck?"
The answer: Get Your Inner Game Together!
I know, I know, this is easier said than done. I mean, if it was
easy, therapists would be out of a job, right?
Well, it is possible. But it takes hard work.
So if you're not willing to put in the time and effort it takes to
get your inner game in shape and enjoy the wonderful feelings of
supreme confidence and the belief that you can achieve anything you
want, then stop reading this email right now. Seriously. Stop
reading this, delete it from your inbox, and go on with your life
the way it is. I won't be mad. I promise.
You're still reading this?
Congratulations. That means you're probably unhappy with your
current inner game, but you're willing to put in the work it'll
take to fix it up.
Of course, inner game isn't something that can be fixed overnight.
But it CAN be done. Go to this site now:
The Art Of Approaching
This site has a number of incredible articles on how to strengthen
your inner game, feel more confident in yourself, shed your fear of
rejection, and to even change any limiting beliefs you may have
that are holding you back from your full potential.
I must warn you, this site is not for everyone. Only people who
are SERIOUS about fixing their inner game will get anything out of
it.
If you are one of those people, then I look forward to seeing more
of you.
To your success,
Joseph Matthews
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