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How To Leave Women No Choice But To Feel Sexual
Attraction For You!
by Swinggcat
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A buddy of mine recently felt despondent over his
success with women, which amounts to a big, fat zero.
But here's the weird part…
He's fearless at approaching women. He's a master at
engaging them in conversation – most women find him
funny and charming. He has no problem getting their
numbers, talking to them on the phone, and setting up
dates. He's got heaps of girls willing to break their
plans to spend time with him.
But...
He cannot, for the life him, become sexually intimate
with these women because...
They feel no attraction for him.
Convinced that his looks are holding him back, he's
thinking about going under the knife. The procedures
he's considering are so disgusting that when he told
me about them I could feel my throat moving
up-and-down inside my neck skin, struggling to keep my
last meal from hurling up.
The reality is… looks aren't his problem. He's not a
bad looking guy.
But there is something that's slaughtering his success
with women.
However, he's not a strange aberration, an attraction
retard we should cull from society and stick on a
leper colony.
In fact... most of the male population is plagued with
his problem.
The majority of men think attraction has to do with
physical preference. “If you aren't a woman's type,
you're better off moving on,” they lament.
Some develop their personalities, thinking it's their
ticket to stoking women's bellies with an endless
supply of attraction. Developing your personality can
help... but only if it's coupled with something
else... something I'm going to share with you in a
minute.
When most men see a woman throwing herself at an
average looking male, they think, “He must have a
mystical and innate sex appeal.”
Well there isn't anything mystical or inborn about
this guy's sex appeal. At a certain point he stumbled
onto doing something to women that neither my friend
nor 90% of men trudging through the single seen
trenches know exists.
I'm talkin' about SEXUAL TENSION
“What exactly is sexual tension?” you might be
wondering.
It's a mixture of emotions: think excitement with a
dash of fear, titillation with a tinge of uneasiness,
and intrigue with a smidgen of worry.
There are two forms of sexual tension: Passive Sexual
Tension (PST) and Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Passive Sexual Tension (PST) is when you do or say
something that besots a woman into a passive sexual
state. Years ago my sister and her friends got to have
dinner with Johnny Depp. She was so attracted to Mr.
Depp, that she just sat there like dumb dear in
headlights, gawking at him in silence and feeling too
tongue tied to talk. That's an example of Passive
Sexual Tension. I teach tons of ways to trigger
Passive Sexual Tension without possessing Johnny
Depp's mug.
But I'm not going to talk about them in this letter.
Instead I want to discuss Active Sexual Tension (AST).
Active Sexual Tension is similar to its passive
brother except that it compels women to actively
respond to you.
Let's say, for example, I'm talkin' to a woman and
sense that she's into me. At a certain point I might
say to her: “You are terribly sarcastic…but that's
cool because I'm the exact same way. And if we were to
hang out we'd have the best time making fun of the
people around us at their expense... but then our
Karma would be tainted… so we can never be friends.”
Most likely, this will trigger Active Sexual Tension,
compelling her to insist: “Noo! We have to hang out!
We've gotta be friends! We are going to have so much
fun!”
I'm making her chase me. But not in the way she'd
chase down a thief who stole her purse. Instead I'm
emotionally driving her to chase me as a Prize having
meaning and value to her. That's why I call the act of
triggering Active Sexual Tension (AST) in women
“Prizing.”
All forms of effective Prizing are structured as a
tension loop...
1). Tension is sparked.
2). Tension is increased
3). Tension is released.
4). Tension is spark all over again.
Good movies have this structure...
The movie begins by introducing conflict or drama,
sparking unresolved emotional tension inside the
viewer.
Emotional tension increases up until the point of the
climax.
The tension, then, is released by bringing some
resolution to the conflict or drama.
And, finally, the movie ends by sparking that tension
all over again, compelling you to see the sequel.
One of quickest and most effective ways to Prize a
woman, triggering heaps of Active Sexual Tension (AST)
in her, is to use what I call “Push-Pull.”
Push-Pull is emotionally pushing a woman away from you
and then pulling her back in. Each Push triggers
tension... and each Pull resolves that tension.
To get a feel for Push-Pull, here's a real life
dialogue...
It started off with the woman commenting on something
I was saying to her friend.
Girl: Ew... that's gross. You're gross.
Swinggcat: (said after a long sigh) I had a feeling
you couldn't handle me!
Girl: No no! That's not true. I can handle you.
Swinggcat: Alright... let's see how well you thumb
wrestle.
(I win the thumb wrestling competition by shamelessly
cheating).
Girl: You cheated! That's no fair. I want a rematch.
Swinggcat: You know what... you're a feisty woman who
knows what she wants. I like that about you.
Girl: Thanks
Swinggcat: You just went up a notch in my book. Now
you're at a one.
Girl: (laughing) You're really funny!
Swinggcat: You have good taste.
Girl: You have good taste. You're talkin' to me.
Swinggcat: Let's find out (I grab her and kiss her).
Swinggcat: Mm! I do have good taste.
This isn't just some cutesy conversation I had with a
woman. There are a lot of deep, psychological
mechanisms at work here and many layers of
communication taking place. I could do a whole seminar
just on this dialogue – I'm not kidding!
But this is only a short newsletter. So, instead, I
want you to focus on two aspect of this dialogue...
SEXUAL TENSION & PUSH-PULL.
Read through the dialogue a couple times and notice
where I emotionally push the girl away from me,
triggering Active Sexual Tension inside her.
Pay attention to where I emotionally pull her into me,
bringing closure and resolution to the tension I've
created. And to learn everything you'll ever need to
know about Push-Pull get yourself a copy of my course.
Perhaps you're thinking: “The dialogue between you and
that woman sounds childish. Why would a woman want to
thumb wrestle? I haven't thumb wrestled since the
third grade. This girl must've been very young and
immature. Or attracted to you from the get-go.”
Here's the reality of it... I acted childish with her
and that's why it worked. Women universally respond to
what I call “child's play” flirting. To quote a friend
of mine: “What was funny and amusing as a little kid
is funny and amusing all over again.”
In my experience, the more serious and adult a woman
acts the better “child's play” flirting works. She has
to spend her whole life as a serious person. It's a
breath of fresh air when someone comes along that
challenges her to let go, have fun, and act like a kid
again.
Do women think Push-Pull is mean and manipulative?
If your intention is not to hurt women but to mess
with them a bit and you keep it funny and playful,
they'll find you charming. Most importantly, Push-Pull
fills their bodies to brim with Sexual Tension.
Alas, my friend, because this is a short newsletter
we've barely scratched the surface of Sexual Tension,
Prizing, Tension Loops, and Push-Pull. But you're in
luck because… I've put together a course where you'll receive
a college education on every one of these things.
Many of the techniques for triggering sexual tension
you'll learn inside my course aren't available
anywhere else in the world because I'm the guy who
came up with them.
But that's only part of what you'll learn. Inside
you'll get your hands on secrets for succeeding at
every step of the attraction game: from approaching
women to engaging them to attracting them to becoming
sexually intimate with them.
I might not know you personally. But I do know...
What I teach gets results. It consistently drives
women to see you as a Prize and triggers
uncontrollable amounts of attraction inside them.
Just like many others have been doing, you too can
catapult your current lifestyle with women by getting
your hands on a copy of my course right now. You
deserve it.
I'm so confident that my course is going to
drastically increase your success with women I'm going
to let you test-drive it for free of charge. Don't
like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll
still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I
think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with
the women you really want.
Click here to reserve your
copy right now.
And if you haven't yet picked up a copy of my ebook do
so by clicking here. It's the
foundation for everything I teach.
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
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