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How To Be A Nice Guy (And Still Get Women!)
by Joseph Matthews
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Have you ever heard that old familiar lament:
"Nice Guys Finish Last, Jerks Get Laid?"
At first glance, it would seem that is true.
There are a lot of Jerks out there who are
able to attract tons and tons of women.
And there are a lot of Nice Guys who struggle
with getting girls, and feel frustrated.
After all, who wants to have to be a jerk in
order to get women?
Here's the thing...
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A JERK TO GET WOMEN!
You just have to change a few things you
tend to be "nice" about.
For instance:
1. Social Restrictions
We tend to believe that there are "acceptable"
and "unacceptable" things to do around women.
And while this is true to some extent, Nice Guys
are often wrong about the limits of what is
acceptable.
Like being sexual around women. Many Nice Guys
believe this is "inappropriate behavior."
But that's wrong!
Being sexual around a woman is a very powerful
way of communicating your interest in her.
Little things like flirting and joking about
sex can go a long way into making you a potential
lover instead of just a potential "friend."
2. Inability To Act
Too often, "Nice Guys" wait around for the girl
to make the first move to initiate romance.
This is a DEADLY mistake!
Women take their cues from the men they're with.
If you want to escalate into a physical
relationship, you have to be the one to make the
first move.
This can be scary. It's possible to get rejected.
But if you don't do it, you won't succeed!
Actions speak louder than words, and if you allow
yourself to act and go in for a kiss, or not be
afraid to touch her, then you communicate all the
right things...
Things like aggressiveness, confidence, and
sexuality -- all things women find irresistibly
attractive!
3. Diarrhea Of The Mouth
Way too many Nice Guys like to talk about boring
stuff.
They do nothing to captivate the girl. Their
stories don't inspire romance or attraction.
In short: Nice Guys are neutered!
The real trick with women is to be playful! Have
fun with them!
Crack jokes.
Tease them.
Have a good time.
Show her a little bit of attention instead of
focusing on yourself -- but don't take yourself
for granted either!
If you just talk, and talk, and talk without
knowing what you're saying, you're going to bore
the girl you're with.
And girls who are bored with you will not be
attracted to you.
If you look at the three points above, you can
see that the Jerks who get all the women do
these things.
BUT, Nice guys can do them too, and not have to
act like a complete horses ass to do them!
You can still be the Nice Guy you've always been,
but just change three simple tactics and see a
drastic improvement in your success with women.
Here's a recent success story I got from a Nice
Guy who followed my advice...
NICE GUY SUCCESS STORY>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Dude, your stuff works!
I went out last night and took the lead
much more. Also, thinking of what you
told me, I pressed forward on every sexual
innuendo opening that popped up. It is
amazing how quickly girls opened up.
I ended up talking to this guy and the
two girls with him about hotel porn and
the fact that everybody, including women
watches it (something I'd never thought
I'd talk to women about before).
We talked about Michael Ninn and porn with
real storylines and started dreaming up
porn careers for ourselves.
Anyway, long story short, when they
closed the club we ended up at his place
nearby; nice and big with a Japanese garden.
We joked around and the girls did stupid
dances to the indian electronica that was
playing and eventually at like four am we
paired off.
I just got back!
That is the quickest result I have had yet
and it was fun to be so open. Thanks!
R. (Recovering Nice Guy)
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
If you want to have really effective successes
and turn your luck around, you really need to
read my book The Art Of Approaching.
This information is truly LETHAL stuff.
The Nice Guy above emailed me a few times about
his problems, and I gave him the EXACT SAME
information I just gave you.
And look what it got him!
Listen to Uncle Joseph, I don't
steer you wrong!
If you don't start applying the strategies in
my book, you'll have to be happy with what
you're getting right now.
But if you can imagine going out to meet women
armed with the "secret weapons" I give you
that can help boost your confidence and get
beautiful girl after beautiful girl to date you...
Well, I'm sure you're starting to realize the
possibilities. =)
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