I know that there are quite a few newbies to the game here, and most of
you probably aren't even out of High School. Being a player in High
School is without a doubt the hardest feat to pull off. Unlike a club
where if you mess up or score, that's only between you and her, and
maybe her friends. But in High School, you are constantly analyzed.
Everyone watches you, and make one mistake and your head is in the
social guillotine.
So how do you become successful with girls in High School?
The first thing to remember is that they are all GIRLS. Not women-
Girls. Even the girls who act like they are 40 are girls, because at the
end of the day, they are the easiest to attract when it comes to
vulnerability. But you have to remember- in High School, these girls are
essentially forced to stay in a building within extremely close
proximity of hundreds of boys, all like you- trying to score the hottest
girls.
What I have noticed is that the generally successful boys start out
with confidence, but then become so obsessed in the chase that they make
careless mistakes running them into ruin. Also, in this new age of
cameras you can't see, as well as various mediums to get your actions
and pictures spread to thousands, you have to now incorporate something
into your swagger- "Class".
I find that you turn the most heads when you pop out of the rest, but
not in an extreme way. Dress with class. Sure nice AF1's or 15's will
get you girls faster, but by what way and image? Girls love to talk, so
they will all talk about how you look "trendy". This will attract the
girls who are after a male image to show their friends. But if you want
the women chasing you, it's time to sharpen up. Semi-formal dress shirts
go very well with designer jeans. A pair of dress shoes (and not spats
or Oxford strict shoes) like Rockports can give you that extra touch.
Girls will look and see someone who has self esteem and class. They see
someone who looks comfortable being at the top. But then the jeans (and
they have to be good jeans too) show the more casual, fun side of you.
They show that you are serious, but not overly so. If this look is too
serious on you, or makes you look "nerdy", then what I'd suggest is to
leave the shoes off and get a pair of Dress Sneakers. Something in the
Lacoste line, or even Puma (they make some excellent loafers) would
break necks. I have been able to even pull the Fedora look off and still
get attention, but that is when you reach the top of your game.
Interacting with the girls is now a new beast to tame. You're trapped
with the same people for about 4 years, if you're just starting out.
Don't say "oh well if I screw up now there's always the new kids next
year". Your image will trickle down from your grade to the next. You
have to think long term now. This means taking it slow. Patience. Use
the techniques on this site of body language and confidence. It's time
to be slightly arrogant. Young girls like to challenge. They live off of
teasing and torturing the boys because subliminally it's their way of
testing to see which of the boys in High School are the most stable,
strong, confident or susceptible. They take behaviors to an extreme. So
what you need to do is become indifferent. Pick a girl you like. Observe
her softly- this means that you're not staring at her in the lunchroom
or class watching everything she does. Glance at her every 10 seconds
for one second, and then proceed to glance at things around her, while
keeping your eyes in front of you for a majority of time on something
like a magazine. Keep your face relaxed, with a hint of a smile on it.
Look confident- not giddy or nervous. Once you see the kind of girl she
is, like how she speaks and what gestures she does often, it's time for
what I call the "Walk Around". This is most effective at lunch. Find a
target that would require you to walk by her to get to- a vending
machine (if you pick this please buy something or you'll look like a
bum) or a friend will do. Walk slowly, but do not strut! Putting bounce
in your step says you're trying too hard. Instead, step firmly. This
means when your foot comes down. it doesn't just drag and stop. It means
you plant it and it stays. Do not stomp either. As you pass her, pretend
to be looking elsewhere. Casually turn and pretend as if she caught your
eye by looking her square in hers. Once the eyes make contact (trust me,
they will), give her a faint nod and smile. Look for something unique
but good about her and remember it. You will need it later. Look away,
take about 10-15 steps more before glancing back. She will most likely
be with friends, so even if she's not looking, she knows what you are
doing through her friends. Now that she has a feeling you're interested,
it's time for the return trip. Walk back in her direction, and look for
cues. If the girls around her are watching you, you're now in the
spotlight. Look for fidgeting, a sudden interest for the girls to talk
amongst themselves, or even your target facing you. 99/100 times, you
will see your target pretending like you're not there, but her friends
suddenly noticing you. Now it's time to stake your claim. As you walk by
slowly, either run your finger on the edge of their table WITHOUT making
any eye contact with her friends, or if there's not enough room, lightly
tap the table in front of her. This move here is extremely gutsy,
requiring you to show nothing but confidence. Not looking at any of the
girls shows that you are as oblivious to them as your target is
pretending to be of you. Once the table maneuver is complete, keep
walking back to your table, and within 5 steps now, look back at your
target square in the eyes to let her know your finger wasn't a mistake.
This whole procedure conveys your interest, but also says that you don't
need her that desperately.
Wait until you see her again, ergo in the halls or even next day lunch
for the best effect, to say hi. Instead of just going "hey there" or
"have I seen you before?", say something like "You know, I saw you at
lunch yesterday, and I couldn't help but notice how beautiful your hair
looks" (replace hair with whatever unique you saw about your target).
Once she says thanks, which she will, say that you would love to talk
more, but you're in a hurry. Ask for her name, and say, "Well I'll see
you at lunch" (or wherever you saw her. If you see her again that same
day, postpone a meeting until the next day, same time). This here
secretly conveys to her that you are the one in control here.
Hopefully you will have her interest (which worked pretty much every
time for me) and you can now start using the rest of the tips here. Why
the long tutorial on how to attract her? Remember earlier where I said
you're constantly being analyzed? When she tells other girls about how
you "picked her up", they will all come to the conclusion that you're
confident and headstrong.
- Richard
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