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Tips for Flirting with Women at Bars
by Matthew Whiting
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I hope your dating is going well and that you are learning
something. Bars are places that are traditionally considered the
place to go when meeting people. Perhaps its the atmosphere, or
perhaps its the alcohol! Either way, its useful to have some clues
when meeting women in bars.
Tips for Flirting with Women at Bars
When you go out on the town looking for women, there are a few
things that you should definitely think about. Here are some basic
tips for flirtation and seduction, particularly geared to the needs
of men.
Keep yourself neat and clean.
It seems like your mother went over this a time or two, but the
simple fact is, many guys just don't remember their basic grooming
habits when going out to meet women. Stay clean and groomed, and
make sure that your breath smells good - particularly because you
may find yourself speaking very close to a girl in a noisy club.
Stay confident and positive.
It's easy to say that you should just be confident, but there's
another element to personality as well. Women like confidence, but
they also enjoy being around someone who smiles, is happy, and has
a sense of humor. Don't take all the advice to "be confident" at
face value. Confidence without a little good nature to temper it
will have women thinking you're cocky.
Don't try to get girls drunk.
Alcohol makes women more receptive to suggestion, but it also
switches on a certain "automatic rejection" circuit in many women.
This is simply the internal knowledge that she is too drunk to make
good decisions, and will reject you out of a sense of personal
preservation. And if a girl who is too drunk is there with friends,
the friends will almost certainly run interference and take her
home before you can take advantage of the inebriated state. With
all this in mind, a drink or two is fine, but trying to get a girl
drunk is really counter productive.
Pick one girl per group.
If there is a group of girls, you're going to have to pick one, not
sample all of them. The fact is, no one wants to feel like they're
being flirted with just because their friend rejected you. It just
won't yield any positive response at all. Don't try to "make the
rounds" of a group of girls, as it will really just be a waste of
your time. Pick one in the group, but not necessarily the most
attractive - you may find you have far better luck with one of the
lesser girls.
Be generous but honest with your compliments.
If you're laying down pickup lines, girls will know. If they are
regulars to the club, they've surely heard them all before. It's
embarrassing for you to use cheesy lines and boring for them. A
good example of this is a trap that girls often set for the
unsuspecting Casanova. Here it is: you tell her what beautiful eyes
she has. She immediately closes them and asks you what color they
are. If you were just blowing hot air, you won't know, and then
you're busted. Time to move on. It's best to give genuine
compliments based on things you actually find attractive about the
person.
Be yourself. Simple.
It's really difficult to keep up an act, and usually a girl will be
able to tell. If you just act like yourself, the girl will trust
you more and you will find maintaining conversation (and
flirtation) a whole lot easier.
Matthew Whiting is a professional writer specializing in dating and
relationship advice. He has extensive experience in training men
to maximize their seduction potential and ability to interact with
women successfully. He is considered by many to be an expert in
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for his work in "How to Be Irresistible to Women," which is part of
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