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One of the most common complains women have about men is that they
just don't PAY ATTENTION.
Seriously, have you ever had a girl ask you "Are you even listening
to me????" or better yet, "You're NOT listening to me!"
C'mon. We've all been there before.
Well, the ladies do have a point. It is very important to PAY
ATTENTION.
Now, I'm not saying you gotta start listening to everything they
say. Actually, I'm saying that you have to start paying attention
to how they RESPOND.
I call paying attention to how a woman responds to you
"calibration." By allowing yourself to see how she is reacting to
what you're doing, you give yourself the information you need to
either escalate what's working, or fix what isn't.
This is very important.
And it ALWAYS applies, no matter what the situation. Whether
you're just meeting a girl for the first time, or you're out on a
date, or you're in bed together, you always want to be calibrating.
Calibration mostly has to do with the reading of body language.
You gotta pay attention to the signs she's sending you (even though
she may not know she's sending them!).
For instance, say you see a girl standing around with her arms
crossed, and she's got a big scowl on her face, and looks like
she's having the worst day of her life. That will help you decide
if you want to approach her, and how to approach her.
Would you want to approach a girl when she's all closed off and
negative like that? Or would you prefer to look for an easier
target?
If you decide you do want to approach her, how would you go about
doing it? Maybe you could ask her "What's wrong, you look like you
lost your best friend?" Then go about cheering her up or making
her laugh.
When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to what she's giving
you. Is she leaning back? Looking away? Not really engaging in
conversation? Then she's not that into what you have to offer her.
But what if she's leaning forward? Are her pupils dilated? Is her
head tilted? Is she playing with her hair? Smiling a lot? Is she
touching you? If so, then chances are what you're doing is working
and you should be doing more of it.
Women will tell you exactly what you need to do to get them. You
just have to PAY ATTENTION!
Once you've got that down, you'll be able to tailor your approaches
to each individual woman and make them much more effective! If you
want to learn how to meet any woman you want, no matter what your
looks, age, or financial standing may be, check out my book The Art
Of Approaching right now by clicking below:
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Once you learn the secrets I unleash in my book, you'll know how to
meet any woman, any time, anywhere you may be -- whether you're
alone or not!
Wishing you success with women,
Thundercat
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