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The Best Gift To Give A Woman
by Matthew Whiting
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Women are expensive, I know that, you know that, they love to shop,
so when it comes to giving the perfect gift, only the best will do.
And "the best" is expensive.
But's what's the most priceless gift that women will appreciate
above anything else? I recently discovered it, and it didn't cost
me a thing!
It'll not only increase your chances of getting a woman's phone
number; but women in general will like and trust you more. They
will also be more attracted to you.
So what is this amazing gift?
The best gift you can possibly give a woman is the gift of
unconditional friendship.
What? Friendship! Is that all?
Yes, and let me explain why...
Beautiful women are approached by guys who are nice to them all the
time. However once they give the guy the message that they aren't
interested in them sexually, most men aren't at all interested in
being friends. Often they just go, "Oh well!" and never want to
talk to them again.
I can understand this logic. I mean, what's the point in pursuing
someone who isn't interested?
First of all, by not seeming interested in anything other than
friendship, you are less threatening, and you illustrate that you
are different from most other guys. In fact, it shows that you
know a thing or two about women. And that makes women curious in
itself.
They also don't know whether they can get you or not. You aren't
making yourself easy to get - if they do decide they like you, you
have now become a challenge. And women love that.
I'm not guaranteeing you that this will get you the woman that you
are going after. But it is the best thing you can give a woman and
will give you the best possible chance with them.
There are not many men out there who want to spend their time
meeting and talking to a woman just to become her friend. What
usually happens is when men see a beautiful woman and approach her,
they are only interested in one thing.
Women can see right through this. It gives women the impression
that what you want is someone who is cheap and easy.
If you take the time to have a conversation with a woman and get to
know her, this makes her feel special and makes you look good.
One of my female friends, Bridget, gets approached by guys all the
time. What she finds attractive in a guy is one that genuinely
wants to have a conversation with her, without making any moves.
Bridget is very attractive, so she gets approached all the time.
But what she finds is that guys don't listen to what she is saying.
Some aren't even making eye contact!
And that's a problem. Guys seldom approach a woman with the
intention of just having a nice conversation and getting to know
them as a friend.
Much of the time, men get so carried away with the idea of
seduction that they completely forget about being a friend and
getting to know the women they are talking to.
Women want their men to take an interest in their lives, their
friends, families, their day at work, and their hopes and dreams.
They also want to get to know the man they are seeing. And it's a
reciprocal thing. They also want to know about you. This is why
many relationships don't work out. If you become her friend first
and take the time to really get to know her and her life, the
relationship can only get more intimate from there.
In fact, the guys that are the most successful with women are the
ones that enjoy the friendship and company of women. It's when you
open up to a woman and allow her to open up to you that you are
being the most intimate with her. It lets her know that she is
important to you and that you value her.
You also have the opportunity to discover the things you both like
doing and things you have in common. Most importantly it gives you
both something to talk about.
Friendship builds the base for a loving and caring relationship.
When you meet a woman that appeals to you, become her friend. I
promise you won't regret it.
Now that you know what women truly want, I'm going to give you some
tools to really get the sparks flying. You are going to give the
next girl you meet the friendship that she wants, but you are also
going to learn to give her something else that is very important.
Romance seems to be a lost art these days, but if you find a woman
that doesn't secretly want and wait in hope for a romantic guy to
come into her life, I would be very surprised.
A romantic guy is something that women dream about, but rarely ever
meet. Romance isn't dead. It's just that most men are too lazy to
make the effort and woo a woman.
You are going to be that romantic guy, because it is different and
because it is romantic. Next time you go out on a date, try some of
these ideas:
Compliment her on something specific and non-sexual, like the way
she laughs, or her smile, or the way she treats other people.
Women love to receive compliments. If you love the way she tosses
her hair, why not say so? A compliment can be the greatest gift.
Spontaneously give her small gifts. This is a real winner, but it
only works if the gifts are inexpensive and chosen with her in
mind. Expensive gifts will make her feel like you're buying her,
while generic or inappropriate gifts will bore her. If she likes
chocolate, bring her a small box of nice chocolates. If she likes
wine, bring her a bottle of wine. The benefit of gifts like these
is that the two of you can enjoy them together.
Also, after your first date, have some nice flowers sent to her
work or home address. Her female co-workers will have already heard
about you, and when the flowers arrive everyone will be envious,
and she will love it.
Go for a walk in the park. Parks are very romantic places, as well
as good places to talk about your day.
The first time you kiss her, make it very special. Instead of
kissing her outside her house, try some other place. Just stop her
and say, "This might be a strange place to kiss you, but I just
wanted to tell you that I'm so glad that you have come into my
life." I promise you it is something she will never forget.
Being romantic can be as easy as opening a door for her. Even if
she tells you that she doesn't believe in all the old romance
stuff, she will still be flattered by it. Women want to be treated
as equals in so many facets of life, but secretly they are still
very flattered at being treated like a lady every once in a while.
I haven't met a girl yet that doesn't secretly want a little
romance!
Matthew Whiting is a professional writer specializing in dating and
relationship advice. He has extensive experience in training men
to maximize their seduction potential and ability to interact with
women successfully. He is considered by many to be an expert in
his field with his frank and forthright approach. He is best known
for his work in "How to Be Irresistible to Women," which is part of
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