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Tell me if you've heard the following before:
"You're a cool guy and I like you... but just not in THAT way. Can we just be friends? You mean a
lot to me..." -- and this is the point where you probably tune-out and bury your head into the
ground.
I hate to say it to you guys, but if you hear this, the game's already over.. I know a ton of you guys
will continue e-mailing me, asking if a second chance is possible. For most cases... NO. I'm
sorry, but when the love is gone, it's time to move on!
When you hear this little speech, what women are trying to say is, "I kinda like you, but I don't find
you attractive." And when I say "attractive" I mean sexually attractive.
So how on earth do you avoid all this heartache? The solution is actually quite simple, but the guys
that get stuck in this infamous "friend zone" just have no idea what to do! And the mistakes these
guys commit often happen as SOON as they meet a girl.
Here are some of the most common mistakes these guys make:
1.) They treat women as if they ARE friends, but they just don't realize it! They'll go out of their way
to "impress" the girl by buying them stuff, listening to their problems 24/7, and being their personal
life counselor. This isn't what an attractive person does, this is what a FRIEND does.
Guys that are too "friendly" have this notion that if you treat a girl like she's a princess, she'll
eventually fall in love with them. Just stop!
2.) They fail to create proper sexual tension. Guys that get stuck in the friend zone are just too afraid
to create a 'sexual atmosphere.' In fact, most don't even know how!
As soon as you meet a girl, you have to exude sexuality. And this is exactly why women think
"bad boys" are attractive sexy... it's because they exude tremendous amounts of sexuality. So instead
of being that guy that shows tremendous amounts of interest in women, catering to their every need,
be a guy that, just frankly, doesn't give a crap!
3.) They're too readily available -- whenever and wherever. Guys that get stuck in the 'friend zone'
will plan their life around "The Girl." Little do they know that they're only hurting their chances of
creating sexual attraction!
If a girl phones you and starts crying about how crappy her day went... or how some guy is being
a prick to her, just tune out. Avoid, avoid, avoid! Instead, turn the conversation around and start
FLIRTING with her!
Sometimes, it's just great to say, "Wait, wait, wait... why are you calling me about this? Am I your
shrink? What you need is a good night out with a really fun and attractive man -- me!"
There are tons of other mistakes guys commit when trying to court a beautiful woman, and I
include them ALL in my NO-COST, NO-RISK system.
Try it here: Get it at NO COST and NO RISK! <- Like I said, you can try it right now at literally
NO COST
Your friend,
Derek Lamont
Master PUA & Author
Online Pickup Secrets
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