You’ve Been There Before
There’s not many qualities that a man can have that are more attractive to women than the attitude that her liking you is not a big deal at all. You’ll always end up a winner if you can act like it’s just another day in your life, like you’ve been there before.
This is probably the most obvious sign that women use to sort out the real men from the fakes.
Guys who aren’t accustomed to getting much attention from women will behave completely different than men who are. They get more excited, display nervous body language, and most of all they try to “hold on” to that girl for a long as possible.
In their mind, if they let her out of their sight for too long they believe that she’ll forget about them or another guy will come along and scoop her up.
The exact opposite is the truth.
Pulling women in is a great strategy, but only when paired with pushing them away as well.
For example, whenever you meet a new women and spark a conversation, the clock begins to tick; and it’s counting DOWN.
Your behavior will also be under a microscope.
Linger too long or get too excited and she will lose interest, but if you cut the conversation off within 5-10 minutes – while it’s at a climax before going stale – you will leave the type of lasting impression on her that most men simply can’t accomplish.
Before you know it, she’ll be chasing you. Most likely, she’ll try to reignite the conversation herself.
What did you think would happen? She was going to get lost in the mundane pick up attempts from other guys who seem to be WAY too anxious to get into her pants?
Nope, not today.
She’s going to come back around to that one guy who acted like talking to a beautiful women was just another day in his incredible life.
The guy who let her go without a care in the world.
The one who acted like he had been there before.
If you’re even just a casual fan of American Football, then you know who Barry Sanders is, right? In my opinion, he’s the greatest running back to ever live (and I’m not a Lions fan).
Sure, he was the man because barely anyone could tackle him, and yes he would probably hold the all time rushing record if he didn’t retire in his prime.
However, do you want to know what really amazes me about that guy?
Every time he plowed into the end zone he would casually jog over to the ref and hand him the ball. No spiking, no dancing, no celebration AT ALL.
He simply acted like he had been there before. This was nothing new, just another day at work.
Now let’s say that none of us knew who Barry was and he just got drafted into the NFL this year as a rookie. If he started scoring touchdowns like crazy and just acting like it’s no big deal, that would make all of us think that HE must be the big deal.
This guy is just running into the end zone and acting like it’s nothing? Who the hell is this guy?
That’s the same way that women will feel about YOU if you act like their beauty, their number, or even taking them home is not on your agenda at all.
You’re just there enjoying yourself, and if she’s going to be a part of your night that’s cool. If not, that’s cool too because you could care less.
That is the stuff that separates the men from the boys, and girls can see it.
Just act like you have been there before.
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