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The 3 second rule to approach girls


3 second rule to approach girls

When you really can’t think of anything to say to initiate a conversation with a girl – whatever you do – don’t break the 3 second rule to approach girls or your success rate will be lower than it would be otherwise!

Even if you have no idea how to continue, always act within 3 seconds nevertheless.

If you act in 3 seconds, she will notice it.

No matter where she just popped in from or where you popped in from or how you happened to pass each other by in a given geographical location, she will notice it.

She will see the spontaneity in your approach and it will work in your favor.

If however, you wait and hesitate and then decide to approach, you are in a decidedly weaker situation.

If you just arrived and accessed her within 3 seconds, she will know it was spontaneous because she noticed you arrive whether she wanted to or not – you were a change in a static environment.

Or if she just arrived and you accessed her in 3 seconds, she will recognize the spontaneity of it again because you couldn’t have accessed her before – she simply had not yet arrived.

If however you just pop out of nowhere – she didn’t see you arrive neither did she just arrive and the only change in a static environment was you accessing her – you just might set off her stalker alarm.

Who knows how long you’ve been following her or watching her in secret or gobbling her up with your eyes.


The only surefire way to avoid a situation like that is to use the 3 second rule.

Besides not setting off any alarms to her because of the obvious spontaneity of your approach, you are also doing yourself a favor.

In three seconds, you have no time to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering – to acquire all the definitive signs of an average guy lacking any confidence, substance or consequence, a failure with girls and life in general, a complete repellent of beautiful girls.

You also have zero time to talk yourself out of approaching her before you actually do it.

So even if you start sweating, stuttering and trembling while talking to her, you weren’t that way when you initiated contact – you just didn’t have the time for that.

It’s the first impression that counts.

If that first impression of you was that of a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you were positive from the start, which in turns greatly the diminishes the chances of you turning into a plate full of jelly while having a conversation with her.

The 3 seconds rule of course is not an absolute – you may simply not have noticed her or were currently tied up with something that stopped you from approaching her immediately.

The three seconds start counting from the moment you have spotted her AND are free to approach.

When these two conditions are met, you really don’t have the time to ponder.

Don’t wait until SHE notices that you didn’t approach her because you were either too busy or simply oblivious.

This is why the 3 second rule to approach girls should become a staple in your mentality when it comes to starting conversations with new women.

The clock is ticking, so move it.

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By Sebastian Steele
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